Dress nice, no drama or you will be asked to leave. There will be four empty seats in memorial to those who are watching us start a new chapter in our life. The first seat is dedicated to the woman who brought life to the man I love and cherish, Ms. Betty Lynn Goodin, the second seat being dedicated to a wonderful and beautiful lady who helped Jonathan Goodin become the man I get to spend forever with, Mrs. Nangela "Nan" Goodin, the third seat being dedicated to a man who was like another father figure to me, and did his duty to our country, Mr. Mark J. Gillispie, and the fourth and final seat dedicated to sweet and loving, Miss Ginger Beckham. A photo, name, and small scripture will be placed on each seat as well. But these were four special people that gained their heavenly wings when God called them home. But they will be with us on this beautiful day as we take this next step in life as husband and wife. Side note, nobody will be allowed to sit in these memorial chairs out of respect for the loved ones lost, but photos are more than welcomed! And finally, children are allowed to attend as well, as it will be a family friendly event, and most of all, have fun! And everyone is more than welcome to bring any type of dish they would like, but no more than 3 dishes per family, and beverages can be anything ranging from soda, sweet tea, unsweetened tea, water, alcohol, juice, etc. With that said, the officiant, the father of the Bride, maid of honor, bridesmaids, best man, groomsmen, and photographer must arrive at 9 am, two hours before the event, to prepare for the big day. Guests are allowed to bring their families or their plus ones.