33 Thoughtful 16-Year Anniversary Gift Ideas for Your Spouse

It's your marriage's sweet 16!

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Updated Apr 17, 2025

It's time to celebrate! You and your spouse have reached 16 years of marriage, a relationship milestone that deserves to be recognized. Picking out a 16-year anniversary gift is a meaningful gesture that'll remind your partner how much you love and appreciate them. Whether you want to follow the year's traditional and modern themes or choose a unique 16th anniversary gift, we can help you find something special. Our list is full of thoughtful ideas, from sentimental keepsakes to practical picks and everything in between. Here are the best 16th wedding anniversary gifts for your husband, wife or spouse.

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Traditional 16-Year Anniversary Gifts
Modern 16-Year Anniversary Gifts
Unique 16-Year Anniversary Gifts

Traditional 16-Year Anniversary Gifts

Wax is the traditional 16-year anniversary gift, which, we'll admit, doesn't sound incredibly romantic. This unusual gift material is surprisingly meaningful though, symbolizing warmth, light and passion between two people. While candles are the most obvious choice, there are other ways to honor the traditional 16th anniversary theme. From waxed jackets to romantic love letters, our roundup includes plenty of fun and creative presents.

Anniversary Map Candle

This champagne-scented candle is right on theme for the 16th wedding anniversary. It's made from soy wax and can be customized with your names, wedding date and a short message. The label also features a map of a significant location, like your wedding venue or where you first met, for a uniquely personalized anniversary gift.

$45 | Uncommon Goods

Flannel-Lined Waxed Jacket

Traditional 16th anniversary gifts aren't just about candles. This waxed trucker jacket is a practical present your spouse can wear with anything. It's made from weather-resistant fabric and is lined with soft, warm flannel. Choose from various classic colors and sizes.

$298 | Huckberry

Wax-Sealed Love Letter

Think a wax anniversary gift can't be romantic? Think again. This personalized love letter is perfect for a spouse who loves the sentiment behind each anniversary theme. It's hand-sealed with a wax stamp and tied with a bow for a thoughtful presentation. Simply compose your personal message with a heartfelt anniversary quote or two, and the Etsy seller will take care of the rest.

$16 | Etsy

Pro-Worthy Waxed Apron

Whether your spouse enjoys cooking or painting, they'll appreciate a high-quality apron. This Hedley & Bennett apron is made from waxed cotton canvas and features umber straps, a tie waist and three handy pockets. It's also water-resistant, stain-repellent and incredibly durable, so it'll last for years. We can't think of a more fitting 16-year anniversary gift for someone creative.

From $126 | Hedley & Bennett

Astrology-Inspired Candle

If your partner always reads their daily horoscopes, they'll love this astrology-inspired candle. It features a personalized label with your names and anniversary date, along with tarot, star sign and numerology details from that day. While we can't predict the future, we're confident this traditional 16-year wedding anniversary gift will hit the spot.

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$70 | Birthdate Candles

Waxed Cotton Jacket

Want to buy a traditional 16th anniversary gift your partner can wear? This Patagonia waxed cotton jacket is worth the investment. It's made from 100% cotton and treated with plant-based wax for a water-resistant finish. Best of all, it's available in gender-neutral sizes, making it the perfect 16th anniversary gift for your wife, husband or spouse.

$399 | Patagonia

Wine-Scented Candles

What's more romantic than a candlelit dinner with a bottle of wine? Whether your partner loves reds, whites or champagne, there's an eco-friendly candle to match their favorite vino. Each is made from a recycled wine bottle with a fragrance inspired by different wine varieties, like cabernet, chardonnay and rosé. Pair it with a real bottle of wine to toast your 16th anniversary.

$24 each | Uncommon Goods

Embroidered Weekender Bag

If your spouse travels regularly, they'll appreciate this practical 16th anniversary gift. The waxed cotton bag has a removable shoulder strap and zippered pockets for storing their essentials. Have it embroidered with their monogram so they can easily spot it on the airport carousel.

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$130 | Personalization Mall

Candle-Making Kit

This candle-making kit is a traditional 16th marriage anniversary gift and a fun date night idea. It comes with everything you need to make six scented candles, including glass vessels, soy wax, cotton wicks, a wax-melting jar, essential oils and decorative flowers. Choose from a wide array of fragrances, like cedarwood, patchouli, bergamot and lavender.

From $40 | Etsy

Garden Tool Belt

Gifts for the wax anniversary don't have to be expensive or luxurious. This garden tool belt is a useful and budget-friendly 16th anniversary gift for him, her or them. It's made from waxed canvas and has 12 sturdy pockets to hold trowels, tape, twine and other essentials. Hide a few packets of wildflower seeds inside so your spouse can start gardening right away.

$30 | Uncommon Goods

Beeswax Toiletry Set

We're big fans of self-care gifts, especially for occasions like anniversaries and birthdays. This set is a thoughtful 16-year anniversary gift for the busy bee in your life. The box is crammed with gorgeous goodies to help them unwind, like handmade soaps, beeswax candles and cinnamon-infused honey.

$49 | Etsy

Modern 16-Year Anniversary Gifts

You can also consider the modern 16th anniversary gift. Silver holloware symbolizes the longevity of a successful marriage, although you'll be forgiven for wondering what exactly it is. While the word "holloware" sounds mysterious, it actually refers to any serveware that isn't flatware (think: bowls, trays and teapots). Traditionally these gifts were crafted from sterling silver, but today they're more likely to be made from stainless steel or aluminum. Check out our favorite silver anniversary gifts for the 16th marriage milestone.

Personalized Serving Platter

Couples who entertain regularly can never have enough serving trays. This polished platter is crafted from recycled aluminum and is ideal for passing hors d'oeuvres and crudités. Add your monogram and last name for a personalized 16-year anniversary gift.

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$105 | Personalization Mall

Monogrammed Wine Cooler

Silver finished stainless steel wine chiller modern 16th wedding anniversary gift

After 16 years of marriage, it's time to pop some bubbly! Make it a memorable moment with this stylish wine cooler from Mark & Graham. It's made from nickel-plated stainless steel and can be laser-engraved with your monogram. Fill it with a bottle of champagne before handing it over.

$70 | Mark & Graham

Stylish Jar Candle

If you're willing to stretch the silver holloware theme, we've found a great gift that combines the traditional and modern 16-year materials. This metallic jar candle is made from paraffin-soy wax and is scented with tropical fruits, sugared oranges and zesty limes. It smells just like an Anthro store which any dedicated fan will love.

From $20 | Anthropologie

Boat-Shaped Bowl

Make waves at the table with some fun nautical-inspired serveware. This boat-shaped bowl is made from shiny metal and comes with two wooden utensils that look like oars. It's a charming 16-year anniversary present that'll make dinnertime more exciting.

$65 | Uncommon Goods

Pewter Beer Tankard

How cool is this beer tankard as a modern 16th wedding anniversary gift? It's made from polished pewter and looks like something you'd find at a medieval banquet. Anyone who loves vintage-style accessories (and beer) will be excited by this creative pick.

From $68 | Farrar & Tanner

Elegant Serving Bowl

The modern 16-year anniversary theme is a great excuse to upgrade your home with elegant accessories. This bowl is made from a metal alloy and artfully shaped to resemble ocean waves. Whether you use it to display fruit or as a decoration, it'll add a sophisticated touch to your living space.

$105 | Nordstrom

Stemless Wine Tumblers

Kick off your 16th wedding anniversary celebrations with new glassware. These stemless wine tumblers are made from shiny stainless steel and are sold as a pair. Each is shaped to fit perfectly into the curve of your palm, while enhancing the aromas of your drink for a pleasant tasting experience. Bonus points for their affordable price tag.

$35 | Viski

Silver Cocktail Shaker

Married to an enthusiast mixologist? This sleek cocktail shaker will make them feel like a pro. It's made from stainless steel and is perfect for whipping up your favorite drinks, from cosmos to margaritas. We love the contrasting brass details on the lid and handle.

$54 | Anthropologie

Bowl and Tray Set

If you're celebrating your 16th wedding anniversary at home, don't forget snacks! This Michael Aram set is an elevated way to serve chips and dip for movie night. It includes a stainless steel tray and three matching snack bowls, all accented with molten brass bead detailing.

$130 | Saks Fifth Avenue

Whistling Tea Kettle

Here's a tea-riffic 16th anniversary gift for a spouse who loves a fresh brew. This stainless steel kettle is the perfect nod to the modern gifting theme, while being practical and hardwearing. It's compatible with different stovetops and whistles once the water reaches boiling point: perfect for letting everyone know it's time for tea.

$110 | Amazon

Unique 16-Year Anniversary Gifts

In addition to traditional and modern themes, most wedding anniversaries have a gemstone, color and flower. The 16-year anniversary stone is peridot, a striking green gem that symbolizes love, prosperity and protection. The 16th year of marriage has two official colors: silver and emerald green. Silver reflects success, while emerald evokes harmony. Finally, the 16th anniversary flower is statice (or sea lavender) representing remembrance. We've found gifts to reflect each of these symbols, along with alternative 16-year anniversary presents that don't follow any theme.

Peridot Pendant

Do you buy anniversary jewelry for your spouse every year? Keep up the tradition with this pretty pendant. It features a pear-shaped peridot on a silver chain, combining the 16th anniversary gemstone and modern material. The gem symbolizes love and devotion, so it's especially fitting for an anniversary.

$175 | Brilliant Earth

Silver-Dipped Rose

Take inspiration from one of the 16-year anniversary colors, silver, with this sentimental keepsake. A beautiful alternative to a fresh bouquet, it's a real rose that's picked at full bloom and preserved in silver lacquer. Have your spouse's name engraved on the stem for a romantic gift that says, "I'll love you, forever."

From $100 | The Forever Rose

Cute Coffee Mugs

Turn your morning coffee ritual into a playful occasion with these cute porcelain mugs. They look like two faces sharing a kiss and the handles form a heart shape. Choose from two color combinations for a fun and practical 16-year anniversary gift you'll use daily.

$50 | Uncommon Goods

Soft Body Pillow

We're already big fans of Bearaby's weighted blankets, but did you know they offer soft body pillows too? Squishy and breathable, they're designed to soothe stiff joints and support the body while sleeping. It's an excellent gift for side sleepers or anyone suffering from back pain or chronic stress. Your spouse will want to cuddle it all night long (and you, of course!)

From $199 | Bearaby

Personalized Reading Valet

If your spouse is an avid reader, they'll covet this wooden valet. Not only will it save their place in their favorite book, but it can also hold their glasses, drink and phone. "Save my spot" is engraved on the front, while the message "To be continued" is on the back. Add a personalized monogram stamp for a unique 16-year anniversary gift for her, him or them.

$68 | Uncommon Goods

Crystal Tennis Bracelet

Jewelry is always a good wedding anniversary gift idea. This Swarovski tennis bracelet is a classic piece your spouse can wear again and again. It's embellished with crystals that add subtle sparkle to any ensemble, from casual outfits to formalwear. Snag the green version if you want to incorporate one of the 16th anniversary colors.

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$229 | Swarovski

Monthly Coffee Subscription

If you and your spouse love coffee, treat yourselves to an Atlas Coffee Club subscription for your anniversary. Each month, they'll send you delicious blends from around the world, along with tasting notes and postcards from each location. Pick the grind, roast and subscription length for a thoughtful 16th anniversary present you can share.

From $60 | Atlas Coffee Club

Mystery Picnic Date

Still searching for unique 16th wedding anniversary gift ideas? Mix things up with a mystery picnic date. Giftory offers surprise activities across 50 US locations, allowing you to explore your chosen city in a new way. You'll gather tasty picnic treats, solve clues and arrive at a secluded picnic spot where you can eat and take in the view.

$120 | Giftory

Personalized Charcuterie Set

You and your spouse go together like cheese and crackers. Celebrate the sentiment by gifting them a personalized charcuterie set for your 16th wedding anniversary. The bamboo board has a built-in groove for serving snacks and a hidden drawer for storing utensils. Choose from eight different designs and pair it with cheese and meats for a tasty anniversary spread.

$50 | Amazon

Fresh Flower Subscription

Looking for 16-year anniversary gifts for a spouse who has everything? Surprise them with a BloomsyBox subscription. Each week or month, they'll receive a bouquet of fresh flowers sourced from eco-friendly farms. It's a sweet gesture that's way more romantic than a one-off gift.

Get 20% off bouquets and subscriptions with this code: BloomsyKnot20.

Prices vary | Bloomsybox

Dinner Date Ideas

Deciding what to eat is a big part of any marriage, as you've probably discovered over the last 16 years. Spice up your routine and palate with this dinner date book. It's packed with 30 scratch-off recipes, along with engaging activities you can do between prepping and eating. Simple yet fun, this 16th marriage anniversary gift will bring spontaneity back to mealtimes.

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$50 | The Adventure Challenge

Dried Statice Bouquet

Pay tribute to the 16-year anniversary flower with this dried statice bouquet. These handpicked blooms come in purple, magenta or pale yellow, and will add a pop of color to any living space. Plus, they'll never wilt, so your spouse can admire them for months (or years) to come.

$20 | Etsy

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