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Updated Mar 06, 202520 Apology Gifts That Make Saying Sorry a Little Easier
Get past this little hiccup with an apology gift.
Photo, from clockwise: 1-800 Flowers, Amazon, La Maison Du Chocolat, Harry & David
by Wendy Rose Gould
Updated Jun 27, 2024
It doesn't matter if you're the world's best couple—arguments happen, mistakes are made and amends are required. Uttering the heartfelt words "I'm sorry" is a must, but you can go the extra mile with apology gifts that help soften your sweetie and move you both past this moment.
The key to great apology gifts is choosing something you know your partner loves, and even better if it's something they may not necessarily go out of the way to pick up on their own. Ahead, we're sharing 20 different "I'm Sorry" gifts across a range of price points and personal preferences. That relieving make-up hug and kiss is on its way!
What Are Good Apology Gifts?
The best apology gifts are always thoughtful and personalized. If she's not a fan of flowers then a bouquet doesn't make sense, but if she's got a sweet tooth then a cupcake might be the winner. If he's not into cooking then a BBQ spice set won't appeal, but if he's a big reader then a new book could put a smile on his face. Ultimately, the best gifts for apologies reflect your understanding of your partner's preferences and show genuine remorse.
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Fresh Flowers
Photo: 1-800 Flowers
Flowers are staples for a reason. They smell amazing, lend a burst of color to any room and help the recipient feel more connected with nature. We love these pastel-hued flowers for an arrangement that's subtle, but makes a statement.
Cozy Pair of Quality Socks
Photo: Barefoot Dreams
One can't have too many pairs of socks, which means that handing over a cozy pair is a winning option for an apology gift. The Barefoot Dreams CozyChic Heathered Women's Socks are a cult-favorite among celebs and everyday people thanks to their ultra cushy, supremely-soft fabric. Throw in some quality time together—maybe even a foot rub—and you're back in your partner's good graces.
A Portable Speaker
Photo: Amazon
If your partner's into music, chill time or simply loves to rock out, consider saying "I'm sorry" with a portable speaker, like the JBL Go 3. Small in size but mighty in sound, this waterproof speaker allows you to stream music and podcasts from any Bluetooth-enabled device. Plus, it has 5 hours of listening time on a single charge.
A Sweet Treat
Photo: Wolferman's Bakery
They say food is the way to a person's heart, and we tend to agree. A little sugar is also the perfect way to boost your partner's endorphins and sweeten them up for an accepted apology. You've got lots of options to choose from, but for a scrumptious winner consider something sweet from Wolferman's Bakery.
Savory Food Box
Photo: Harry & David
For a more savory spin on an edible gift, consider a gift box filled to the brim with yummies. This Harry & David "So Sorry" gift basket comes with sesame sticks, seeded crackers, pepper and onion relish, and some sweeter treats to help balance things out. The giant "SORRY" on the front of the box helps get your point across loud and clear!
Framed Photo of You Two
Photo: Pottery Barn
Go the sentimental route with your apology gift by handing your partner a framed picture of you two. Have one of your favorite images printed, then place it carefully in a beautiful frame. Available in black and gold, Pottery Barn's Radius Frames is a modern-minimalist option that blends seamlessly into all sorts of interior styles.
Luxe Bathrobe
Photo: Fleur't
One of the best ways to say "I'm sorry" is to encourage your partner to indulge in some intentional moments of self-care. A new luxe bathrobe hanging just outside the shower will certainly inspire them to do that. The Fleur't Iconic Robe comes in 17 different colors and is made from an ultra soft, eco-friendly Tencel fabric with a 100% satin charmeuse tie.
A Pampering Skincare Set
Photo: Sephora
Speaking of self-care, an indulgent skincare set is a surefire way to find yourself back in favorable territory with your partner. It'll also help them feel cool, calm and collected. The Kiehl's Fan Favorites Gift Set comes with four tried-and-true essentials that create a complete routine.
A Gorgeous Plant
Photo: The Bouqs Co.
Any plant-collecting partner will gladly accept a new green child into their home. The key is to make it a pretty presentation versus just picking up any old plant from the nursery of your local home improvement store. The Bouqs takes care of that with their beautiful curation of plants that come delivered in pretty pots.
Rose-Scented Candle
Photo: Bloomingdale's
In lieu of real flowers, consider handing your sweetie a candle that smells like a fresh bouquet. Byredo's Burning Rose Candle is a classic option from the brand that evokes passion and romance with notes of rose petals, French marigold, violet and birch woods. The 70-gram size provides 24 hours of burn time.
Exciting Board Game
Photo: Amazon
Usher in some quality time together and say I'm sorry in one fell swoop by handing over an exciting board game you two can play together. For example, Head Trip is a new game from the same people who brought you Cards Against Humanity that has the same sort of humor.
DIY Project
Photo: Pottery with a Purpose
When your partner fancies themselves the crafty type, a DIY project makes for the best apology gift idea. Bonus points if you two can work on the craft together. Check out the Pottery with a Purpose kit that allows you to shape and paint air-dried pottery.
Personalized Jewelry
Photo: MSJewelryUSCo
Whether your partner's drawn to delicate pieces or loves to make a statement, a personalized piece of jewelry makes for a top-tier apology gift. This trendy necklace that spells out their name in bubble letters is one they'll wear all the time.
Customized Cufflinks
Photo: Brilliant Earth
Those who rock a suit will appreciate a pair of customized cufflinks. They'll always think of you each time they put them on, and they're bound to earn a compliment from others, too. Brilliant Earth sells engravable silver cufflinks with a timeless look.
Gorgeous Coffee Table Book
Photo: Amazon
Bookish types are forever collecting new items to thumb through. If you don't know what's next on their "must read" list, then a gorgeous coffee table book is a winning choice. Photo Icons: 50 Landmark Photographs and Their Stories features over 400 pages of stunning photography.
Bottle of Wine
Photo: Wine Access
A nice bottle of their favorite vino goes a long way, and if you make up nicely they might just be down to share a glass with you. Pick a bottle from Wine Access, which offers a broad selection across different varieties, blends and regions.
Beautiful Journal
Photo: Nordstrom
A gorgeous journal is the perfect choice for the pensive partner. It allows them to scribble thoughts, take notes and wax poetic. Opt for a high-quality piece that they'll be able to keep for years, like ROYCE New York's Contemporary Leather Journal available in six colors.
Audiobook Gift Card
Photo: Amazon
If a coffee table book doesn't feel quite the vibe for your bookish sweetheart, hand your partner an audiobook gift card along with your heartfelt apology. It'll give them a chance to choose whatever suits their fancy. Amazon's Audiobook is the premiere destination for listening to books.
Gourmet Box of Chocolates
Photo: La Maison Du Chocolat
Go for the iconic gift choice of a decadent box of chocolates. Try to up the ante with this one to show you put some extra care into their present by skipping the drugstore pick and giving them something a bit more gourmet. The beautiful boxes at La Maison Du Chocolat start at $10 and feature treats like truffles, chocolate bars and more.
Heartfelt Apology Card
Photo: Amazon
You can level up all the above apology gift ideas by pairing it with a heartfelt card that expresses your remorse, love and commitment to doing better. Put it in a humorous card to help lighten the mood and put a smile on your partner's face. This "Otter Disgrace" card from Lemon Loco is especially punny.
