40+ Christmas Card Messages for Your Girlfriend That'll Warm Her Heart

Holidays are coming! While you're probably busy rounding up gifts and making plans with loved ones, don't forget to write a Christmas card message for your girlfriend. In an increasingly digital world, a handwritten note is a thoughtful gesture that'll touch her heart; plus, it's much more romantic than a text message. It's also a lovely way to present your girlfriend's gift for the festive season.

Wondering what to write in a Christmas card for your girlfriend? Think about your relationship and the stage you're at. If it's your first holiday together, a short (and sweet) note may be more than enough. Or perhaps you've been together for years and have countless memories to reflect on in a Christmas letter for your GF. Just remember to be sincere and she'll know you went the extra mile to make her feel special. (Here's a cute idea: Hide your card in her holiday stocking, along with other stocking stuffers for your girlfriend to add to the element of surprise.)

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What to Write in a Christmas Card to Your Girlfriend

We get it: deciding what to write inside a Christmas card for your girlfriend can be intimidating. How do you strike the perfect note between romantic and genuine without sounding cheesy? Start by thinking about what makes your girlfriend special to you. Whether it's her dazzling smile or goofy sense of humor, throw in a compliment (or two) in your Christmas message. Next, consider your shared interests and how they relate to the festive season. Is there a particular couples holiday tradition you do together every year? Maybe you like to kick things off by decorating your home with twinkling lights and enjoying mugs of hot chocolate (or hot toddies.)

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You can also look to other sources to inspire your GF's Christmas card message. Is there a particular holiday movie that she insists on watching every year? Or a song from her Christmas playlist that she has on repeat? With so many great Christmas quotes to choose from, you'll have her card written in no time. Once you're ready to write a Merry Christmas message for your girlfriend, grab a pen and check out our festive prompts below. From cute sayings and funny phrases to a touching letter (and even a poem), we'll help you find the right words for her Christmas love note.

Cute Christmas Messages for Your Girlfriend

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These cute Christmas greetings for your girlfriend are sweet, playful and light-hearted. They're like sprinkles on a gingerbread cookie—they just make everything a little more fun! Pair them with a romantic gift for your special girl and watch her face light up.

• Forever grateful to have you by my side, my love. Let's make this Christmas the merriest one yet!
• You make the holiday season extra sweet, like a candy cane dipped in chocolate and topped with marshmallow fluff. Merry Christmas baby.
• Last Christmas, I closed my eyes and made a wish for the perfect girl. Now, every time I open my eyes, you're right there in front of me.
• Every day with you feels like a sleigh ride through a winter wonderland. Let's continue making memories under the mistletoe.
• I probably don't say this enough, but thank you for all the little things you do for me. You always have my back and it means the world to me. Merry Christmas!
• Like a snowflake, you're one-of-a-kind, unique and absolutely stunning. Winter has never been this magical before. Happy holidays!
• Remember being a kid and feeling so excited you couldn't sleep? You make me feel like that every day. Merry Christmas to the girl who brings out the best in me.
• Merry Christmas to my special person. Counting down the days until we can cuddle and watch all our favorite holiday movies.
• Thank you for being by my side all last year. It's been such an adventure and I can't wait to see what's round the corner! Happy holidays, x.
• Wishing you the happiest Christmas ever because you deserve it. You're kind, funny, thoughtful and beautiful… I could go on forever!

Funny Christmas Messages for Your Girlfriend

Of course, you don't have to be overly sentimental when writing a Christmas card for your girlfriend. These funny holiday messages are the perfect way to embrace the silliness of the season and make her laugh. Lean into her sense of humor with these punny phrases and witty words.

• I must love you lots; my holiday decorating quota was met on December 4th, but I'm still adding fairy lights to everything. How did this happen?!
• Seasons eatings to the girl who always steals my popcorn at the cinema. Excited to watch movies together so you can do it again.
• Well it's official: we've become the couple who twins in ugly Christmas sweaters. 'Tis the season to be cheugy.
• Let's skip to the best bit—the pile of presents under the tree that I know you're trying not to look at. Merry Xmas!
• Here's to another year of eating, drinking and arguing if Diehard is a Christmas movie or not. (It is.)
• You're the reason I keep waking up with Christmas songs in my head. Thanks for that. Happy holidays!
• Please find attached the most awesome present I could find. I look forward to your feedback!
• Merry Christmas to the girl who sleighs at everything. You really are one in a million.
• Hope I made it onto your nice list this year! Merry Christmas sweetie.
• There's no one else I'd rather wake up with on Christmas morning. (And yes, that includes my dog.) Happy holidays!

Christmas Messages for Your Long-Distance Girlfriend

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Living apart can be tough during the holidays which makes a written card all the more special. Bridge the gap between you and your sweetie with these thoughtful Christmas messages for your girlfriend. (Psst, don't forget to include a thoughtful long-distance relationship gift for extra brownie points.)

• Sending you all my love, hugs and kisses from [insert your state name here]. Merry Christmas!
• I asked Santa if I could ride on his sleigh to surprise you on Christmas morning. Hopefully he does, because I want to see you so badly!
• Just like the twinkling stars above, our love shines brightly, no matter how far apart we are. Merry Christmas.
• Merry Christmas, my girl. I can't wait to see you soon and catch up on snuggles, laughter and kisses (of course.)
• Excited for Christmas mornings when we can actually sit next to each other and open our gifts. Until then, a FaceTime reveal will have to do! Miss you x
• I'd rather be kissing you than missing you this Christmas, so I've booked my flights to visit in the new year. Can't wait to see you!
• Even though we can't be together this Christmas, know that I'll be thinking of you always.
• Hopefully this will be our first and last Christmas apart. Here's to finding a new place together in the new year!
• I bought a pair of Christmas pajamas and sent you some to match. Let's do a 'fit check on Christmas Eve.
• My love for you knows no distance. Sending you warm, cozy vibes and a virtual hug (don't worry, a gift is on its way too.)

Christmas Quotes for Your Girlfriend

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Still wondering what to write on a Christmas card for your girlfriend? Including quotes from iconic holiday movies and Christmas songs is a fun approach that can pay off (especially if she's a movie buff or karaoke queen.) Check out these festive sayings from film, music, books and famous figures for inspiration.

• "It's Christmas Eve and we are going to celebrate being young and being alive." —Miles, The Holiday
• "I don't care about the presents underneath the Christmas tree/I just want you for my own/More than you could ever know/Make my wish come true/All I want for Christmas is you." —"All I Want for Christmas Is You" by Mariah Carey
• "Christmas is like candy; it slowly melts in your mouth sweetening every taste bud, making you wish it could last forever." —Richelle E. Goodrich, Smile Anyway
• "I just woke up thinking about going home with you and got very excited about Christmas." —Abby, The Happiest Season
• "The mood is right/The spirit's up/We're here tonight/Oh, and that's enough/Simply having a wonderful Christmastime." —"Wonderful Christmastime" by Paul McCartney
• "You have such a pretty face. You should be on a Christmas card." —Buddy, Elf
• "Christmas isn't just a day, it's a frame of mind." —Valentine Davies, Miracle on 34th Street
• "This is quite the season indeed for friendly meetings. At Christmas everybody invites their friends about them, and people think little of even the worst weather." —Jane Austen, Emma
• "Just remember, the true spirit of Christmas lies in your heart." —Santa, The Polar Express
• "Christmas is a season not only of rejoicing but of reflection." —Winston Churchill

Sample Christmas Letter to Your Girlfriend

If it's tricky to sum up your thoughts in a few words, you can always write a Christmas letter to your girlfriend instead. Wondering what to include in each paragraph? A mix of quotes, greetings and your own anecdotes is a winning formula. Use our sample letter below to guide you.

My special sweetie,

As I sit down to write this Christmas card, I can't believe how fast this year has flown. It seems like yesterday we were celebrating New Year's Eve with all our friends. Yet here we are, in the middle of another holiday season and I am thrilled to share it with you.

These past 365 days have been filled with so many amazing memories, from our summer vacation in [insert location here] to those quiet weekends cuddling on the sofa together. But what truly makes this holiday season special is the time I get to spend with you. You're not just my girl; you're my confidant, my partner-in-crime and my best friend. I feel so lucky to have you in my life, today and always.

Being with you feels like Christmas Eve as a kid, when I'd go to bed excited about waking up the next morning and seeing Santa's presents under the tree. You bring back all the wonder, anticipation and magic of being five years old—which is truly the best gift of all.

Can't wait to celebrate the holidays with you,

Love you lots and then some,

[Your Name]

Sample Christmas Poem to Your Girlfriend

Perhaps a letter feels too long but a quote is too short. A Christmas poem for your girlfriend is the perfect happy medium that'll leave her smiling. We've composed a short little rhyme to inspire you.

Ho, ho, ho, Santa's on his way,

With presents piled up and packed onto his sleigh.

Ho, ho, ho, it's time for gifts and snow,

Snuggling by the fire in its warm cozy glow.

Ho, ho, ho, there's tinsel everywhere,

On the tree, the table and every single chair.

Ho, ho, ho, it's time for mistletoe,

You make me smile every day and I truly love you so.