Everything an Enneagram 6 Needs to Know About Love & Compatibility

Meet Enneagram 6. They're loyal, true to themselves, love a good group event and can be a little anxious at times. (But who isn't?) Known as "The Loyalist," they'll be the Sonny to your Cher, the Travis to your Taylor. But who makes for their best match, as far as Enneagram 6 compatibility is concerned?

Many use the Enneagram system, a popular typology with nine different personality types, to better understand their own or their partner's strengths, motivations and core needs—and how to best navigate their intimate relationships and find lasting, fulfilling love. (If you still don't know what your Enneagram is, Truity's free Enneagram test is one of the most popular in the US and is even psychologist-reviewed. You can take it here.)

If you're a Type 6 and are curious to learn more about what that means or your ideal love interest, scroll on for a deep dive into Enneagram 6 traits, Enneagram 6 in relationships and all the ins and outs of The Loyalist.

In this article:

• Enneagram 6 Traits & Personality
• Enneagram 6 Communication Style
• How Enneagram 6 Is in a Relationship
• Enneagram 6 in the Bedroom
• The Most Compatible Enneagrams for Type 6

Enneagram 6 Traits & Personality

Known most for their steadfast loyalty, Enneagram 6s are true ride-or-dies. They're always by your side and prepared for whatever life might throw their way. They're the kinds of friends who are ready for anything (and have the just-in-case umbrella and bridesmaid emergency kit to prove it.)

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An Enneagram 6 is good at giving validation and reassurance and even better at receiving it—it helps them to feel safe and comforted. However, Type 6s don't really like surprises nor do they do great with spontaneity or last-minute changes. Being supportive and validating their feelings or concerns will help them to go more with the flow. Sometimes they can have a bit of a doomsday fear, but these can be managed mostly with logic, facts and open conversations.

Enneagram 6 Communication Style

Type 6s are strong, thoughtful communicators who value honesty, directness and judgment-free zones. They're cautious with their words when they need to be and opening up can be a bit challenging for them at first. But once trust and security are established they'll quickly build connections, engage in meaningful conversations and truly take the time to listen and understand. All they need is patience.

How Enneagram 6 Is in a Relationship

Partnership is everything to an Enneagram 6, which is why they prioritize their relationships and truly give them their all. Providing their partners with a safe space for introspection, they're attentive and loyal and appreciate the same in return—though they may need some extra reassurance and TLC at times to calm their anxious thoughts.

Eager to quickly solve any problems that may come their way, Enneagram 6s will take an analytical and thoughtful approach to any bumps in the road while encouraging a collaborative problem-solving process, too.

Enneagram 6 in the Bedroom

When it comes to sex and romance, an Enneagram 6 will come alive when they're feeling secure, and safe and have a true emotional connection with their partner. Occasionally hesitant to try new things, but are always open to the suggestion of (and will consider) fresh experiences. With the right amount of reassurance, these emotional lovemakers will find the confidence to further explore their sexual prowess. After all, intimacy is everything to them and they are fiercely loyal and giving in return.

The Most Compatible Enneagrams for Type 6

So, who can Type 6s share their loyal love with and what Enneagram Type do they jive with best? Type 7s, 9s and 2s are in luck. Here's why. Of course, this doesn't mean you can't have a great relationship outside of these pairings. The matches below are just popularly thought to be compatible due to the traits typically associated with the Enneagram types.

Enneagram 6 and Enneagram 7

Though often a bit timid and reluctant to take risks, an Enneagram 6 will find a sense of secure optimism in the adventurous nature of Type 7s. They'll gently take 6s out of their comfort zones, while an Enneagram 6 give them stability and security in return.

Enneagram 6 and Enneagram 9

Pairing up "The Peacemakers" with "The Loyalists" is a match made in heaven. The tranquil nature of Type 9s will help balance out the anxious, skeptical tendencies of Type 6s. Together, they can find an equilibrium where they can thrive.

Enneagram 6 and Enneagram 2

Type 2s are nurturing and caring, and will perfectly complement the loyal—yet sometimes anxious and security-seeking—ways of Type 6s. An Enneagram 6 will never have to worry about where they stand with Type 2 partners and will thrive off their positivity and support.