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Updated Mar 06, 202530 First Valentine's Day Gifts to Give a New Partner
The first February 14th of many.
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Celebrating your very first Valentine's Day together? How exciting! There's nothing quite like young love to give you all the warm and fuzzies—along with a few nerves, too! This could be the start of something really great, so finding the perfect first Valentine's Day gift to mark the occasion and express your hopes for the relationship is key. Whether you're looking to give your partner something sentimental or you want to keep it fun with some cute date-night activities, we've got a list of great first Valentine's Day gifts for your girlfriend or boyfriend. From romantic keepsakes to shared experiences that'll turn your first V-Day into a memory worth repeating, we've got you covered.
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- What to Get Them for Your First Valentine's Day Together
- The Best First Valentine's Day Gifts for Him or Her
What to Get Them for Your First Valentine's Day Together
Your first Valentine's Day together is such a special milestone because it marks the beginning of something beautiful. When it comes to choosing a good first Valentine's Day gift for him, her or them, it's totally okay to keep things simple. After all, your partner has yet to receive the classic Valentine's staples like a box of chocolates, a bouquet of flowers, a cuddly stuffed animal or a romantic jewelry piece. These tried-and-true gifts can create a lovely, memorable first celebration. Don't forget a handwritten love letter to make any gift feel extra personal and special.
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Another great idea for a new relationship gift this Valentine's Day is experience-based presents. Whether it's a fun cooking or mixology class, tickets to a sports game or concert, or a weekend getaway, these activities foster quality time and help deepen your connection. Plus, experience gifts for couples give you both the chance to try something new and maybe even uncover a shared hobby that you can enjoy together for years to come.
The Best First Valentine's Day Gifts for Him or Her
Say "Happy first Valentine's Day, my love" with one of these thoughtful gifts. From quintessential romantic picks to unique presents that'll deepen your relationship, these are the best Valentine's Day gifts for a new partner.
1. Box of Exotic Truffles
Photo: Vosges
For your first Valentine's Day together, you can't go wrong with the classics. This gourmet box of truffles from Vosges is the perfect gift for your chocolate-loving partner. Known for pushing the boundaries of flavor, Vosges blends exotic spices, herbs and botanicals with rich, luxurious chocolate to create a truly unforgettable experience. Think: soft burnt sugar caramel with smooth 45% cacao milk chocolate, kicked up with New Mexican pecans or the smoky kick of Ancho chilies, plus the warm, comforting spice of Sri Lankan Ceylon cinnamon wrapped in 62% cocoa dark chocolate. Each bite is a fun way to explore new flavors together—and it'll definitely give you plenty to talk about.
2. A Bouquet From LoveShackFancy
Photo: 1-800-Flowers
The collaboration of your boho-chic partner's dreams has arrived at 1-800-Flowers just in time for Valentine's Day. LoveShackFancy presents this dreamy bouquet of soft pink roses, beautifully arranged in a vase adorned with one of their signature prints that complements the flowers perfectly. It'll become their go-to vase for future bouquets (which, relationship advice for you, should come long before next Valentine's Day).
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3. Connection Cards
Photo: Amazon
If you're celebrating your first Valentine's Day together, chances are you're still in that exciting "getting to know you" phase. Take things a step deeper with a card deck of conversation prompts. The Adventure Challenge, masters at keeping the spark alive in relationships, offers 50 thought-provoking questions to help you connect on a whole new level and discover more about each other.
4. Gold-Plated Initial Necklace
Photo: Gorjana
Personalized gifts are always a hit, and with this one, all you need to know is your partner's initial. It's the perfect way to give a thoughtful, customized first Valentine's Day gift for her, him or them. The gold-plated necklace features a delicate chain and an alphabet charm, making it easy to stack with their other favorite pieces.
5. Heart Hoop Earrings
Photo: Pandora
It's Valentine's Day, and the desire to give your special someone a heart-shaped gift feels irresistible. But why not opt for something that feels fresh, not forced? These earrings capture the essence of love with a cool, minimalist twist. The asymmetric heart design represents the beautiful unpredictability of true love. Available in sterling silver, rose gold- or gold-plating, they're easy to match with your partner's personal style.
6. Online Cooking Classes
Photo: Sur La Table
If you haven't had a chance to cook together yet—or maybe you've tried but the meal didn't quite turn out as planned—then a virtual cooking class from Sur La Table is the perfect solution. Their online classes cover everything from Italian and French cuisine to Thai dishes, baking and mixology. You'll not only learn to prep and cook a meal from scratch, but you'll also get tips on plating like a pro for that Instagram-worthy presentation. Remember, the way to the heart is through the stomach, so this first Valentine's Day present could be the perfect way to spark new emotions and bring your connection to a whole new level.
7. Food Decision Dice
Photo: Amazon
In the early stages of a relationship, it can be tricky to decide on small things like where to go for dinner (aka what to order for take out). Eliminate the awkwardness (and save yourselves some time) with these decision dice. Each metal die is engraved with various cuisines to help you choose what to eat. It may seem simple, but it's one of the best first Valentine's Day gifts that'll work wonders for your relationship going forward.
8. Scratch-Off Movie Poster
Photo: Uncommon Goods
We all go through the phrase of relationships where you exchange watching your personal favorite movies. Keep the cozy date-nights going with this first Valentine's Day gift idea. The poster features 100 famous films (including Mean Girls, Forrest Gump and The Godfather) to scratch off after watching each one.
9. Super-Soft Cotton Bathrobe
Photo: Brooklinen
Settle into your relationship with a cozy bathrobe for your Valentine, so that every time they stay over, they've got the perfect "uniform" for an ultimate cuddle session. This one from Brooklinen is made from 100% cotton, super soft and comes in a range of colors to match your S.O.'s style. Grab one for yourself too, and throw in some extra goodies—like face masks and candles—so you both can unwind in style together. It's the perfect way to turn any evening into a cozy, intimate retreat!
10. Vera Bradley Weekender Bag
Photo: Vera Bradley
How about an overnight bag for weekends spent enjoying each other's company? Spacious and stylish, this Vera Bradley bag offers plenty of room for all the essentials while still looking chic. Plus, with a range of fun patterns to choose from, you can pick one that suits your partner's unique style. It's not just a practical gift, it's a thoughtful way to show you're looking forward to making new memories together.
11. Romantic Cabin Getaway
Photo: Postcard Cabins
Why not check off two milestones on one occasion: your first Valentine's Day and your first trip together? A stay at Postcard Cabins is the perfect way to celebrate both. These charming, cozy cabins, located just a few hours from several major cities, are tucked away in nature, offering a unique getaway that's both intimate and memorable. With no distractions except each other and the stunning surroundings, it's the perfect setting to deepen your bond and create lasting memories.
12. Apple Watch Sport Band
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Met on the pickleball court? The gym? Or maybe during a group hike? Your active partner will love a sporty band for their Apple Watch. With its lightweight, breathable design, this band is not only comfortable and waterproof but also comes in nine vibrant colors—perfect for transitioning from the office to workouts without missing a beat. It's a practical gift for your first Valentine's Day together.
13. Heart-Shaped Box of Jerky
Photo: Man Crates
Looking for something savory instead of sweet? If they're not into chocolate, this snack box from Man Crates is the perfect first Valentine's Day gift. Packed with a variety of high-quality jerky, this heart-shaped box puts a meaty twist on the classic treat. From smoky and spicy bites to a honey root beer flavor, this gift is sure to satisfy their cravings.
14. First Valentine's Day Teddy
Photo: Zazzle
Every couple is different in how they approach romance, especially when they first start dating. If you think your partner would appreciate a sweet and sentimental gift, this cute teddy bear is a great pick. Each side of the bear's shirt features a red plaid heart and a short message that reads "Our First Valentine's Together," followed by your names and the year. Such a sweet keepsake will show your valentine just how much you adore them and what this romantic milestone means to you.
15. Custom Message in a Bottle
Photo: 1-800-Flowers
Here's a truly unique way to ask someone to be your Valeninte. First, choose one of these keepsake glass bottles with colored accents and faux rose petals or seashells inside. Then write a short message expressing your feelings this February 14th to be printed on vellum paper, rolled up and placed inside of the corked bottle.
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16. Simple Bronze Frame
Photo: Anthropologie
A picture from one of your dates makes the perfect first Valentine's Day gift for him, her or them since it's a charming way to proudly show off your relationship status. This sleek, modern frame with its timeless bronze finish is the ideal way to showcase that special photo with four size options to choose from. Can't pick just one snapshot? There's also a double frame design.
17. Personalized Love Coupons
Photo: Personalization Mall
You don't always have to splurge to find a sweet and thoughtful gift for your valentine. Whether you're shopping on a budget or keeping things simple the first year, these personalized love coupons are a great idea. Your partner can trade in one of their 12 customized "vouchers" for a reward, like breakfast in bed, a romantic getaway or control of the TV remote. You can also add your own ideas to reflect their favorite things (or get them out of any chores they hate).
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18. Matching Underwear
Photo: MeUndies
If you're in a relationship with someone who has a great sense of humor, this cheeky matching couples gift will make them laugh. A set of matching underwear from MeUndies is guaranteed to brighten up their day and allow you to coordinate with your partner in a fun way. Choose from a broad range of colors, patterns, sizes and styles for a first Valentine's Day gift they may not expect but will definitely love. If you're feeling extra matchy-matchy, you can even sign up for a subscription to receive new pieces every month.
19. Mini Concrete Fireplace
Photo: Amazon
Swap out the typical candlelit dinner for a cozy firelight experience. Cook your partner's favorite dish, and for dessert, use a mini concrete fire pit to roast s'mores, creating a fun, intimate moment. You'll both bask in the warm glow of the flames and the growing warmth of your relationship. Perfect for both indoor and outdoor use, it lights up easily with just a match and a bit of rubbing alcohol (no need to fuss with extra fuel). It's a simple yet memorable way to make your first Valentine's Day extra special.
20. Small Cheese and Charcuterie Board Delivery
Photo: Boarderie
This spread is a true treat for the eyes and the taste buds, featuring white cheddar cut into adorable heart and XO shapes, along with an assortment of delicious cured meats, fresh fruit and gourmet accompaniments. For a sweet touch, candy hearts are included to add a playful vibe to your snacking session. Whether you're nibbling while binge-watching movies or sharing bites over a glass of wine, it's the perfect way to say, "Olive us!" without being too cheesy.
21. Escape Room Game in a Box
Photo: Cratejoy
Show you're excited for the future with a couples subscription service that makes every month feel like a mini adventure! Cratejoy offers dozens of unique first Valentine's Day gift ideas for him, her or them, delivering a themed box of your choice each month. The Conundrum Box, for example, will put your detective work to the test by delivering escape room style puzzles straight to your door. Immerse yourself fully in every story through music, food and drink recommendations so you have an effortless date night at home that's actually fun.
22. Long-Lasting Roses
Photo: Rosepops
Looking for a first Valentine's Day gift for her, him or them that's sure to impress? Rosepop is here to steal the spotlight, outshining traditional cards and fresh flowers. This stunning box features four long-lasting roses that pop up right out of the box. Choose from a variety of box colors, select their favorite flower hue and even personalize it with a fragrance, a message on the lid or charms for the ribbon for that extra special touch.
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23. Pasta Art Kit
Photo: Uncommon Goods
Ready to channel your inner Linguini and Remy from Ratatouille? A DIY pasta kit is the perfect first Valentine's Day gift to cook up something fun together. This kit includes everything you need to make your own pasta, from vegetable-based dyes to create a vibrant rainbow of noodles, to dough cutters that help you shape your creations. Whether you're seasoned chefs or kitchen newbies, it's a fun way to bond, get a little messy and end with a seriously delicious reward!
24. StubHub Gift Card
Photo: StubHub
A StubHub Gift Card is another way to share a fun experience together. Whether it's tickets to a concert, sports game, show or another live event, this gift lets your partner choose exactly what they're most excited to see. It's a unique way to make lasting memories, and the best part? You can enjoy the experience together!
25. The Great Wave LEGO Kit
Photo: LEGO
Inspired by the iconic Japanese woodblock print, this LEGO set lets your Valentine recreate the stunning Great Wave, offering a calming and artistic experience. With over 1,800 pieces to assemble, it's far from a toy—this is a true masterpiece in the making. The box even includes a QR code for a tailor-made playlist and content designed to enhance the building experience.
26. Oversized Fleece Blanket
Photo: Amazon
If you thought UGG mules were soft, just wait until you feel a blanket from the brand! UGG's reversible throw takes comfort to a whole new level, with one side featuring velvety flannel and the other their signature plush fabric. It's the perfect size for two to snuggle up underneath, making it an ideal first Valentine's Day gift, especially when February chills are still in the air.
27. Cute Kissing Mugs
Photo: Uncommon Goods
Bring out your partner's sentimental side with these adorable coffee mugs. Made from porcelain, they're cleverly designed to look like two faces kissing, with handles that form a heart—a perfect blend of sweet and practical. These mugs will add a touch of romance to their morning routine, especially if they're making a cup for you, too.
28. Coffee and Chocolate Tasting
Photo: BeanBox
You know what pairs really well with a cute mug? Coffee, of course! Bean Box's artisan coffee and chocolate tasting experience is the ultimate treat for your Valentine. The gift set combines freshly roasted, artisanal coffee with handpicked chocolates, perfectly matched to complement each other's flavors. Enjoy a sweet after-dinner moment to satisfy both their sweet tooth and caffeine cravings.
29. Personalized Song Acrylic Plaque
Photo: ShellsjewelsByShelly
If there's a song that defines your relationship, this personalized acrylic plaque is the sweetest way to celebrate it on your first Valentine's Day. Whether it's the song you belt out in the car, the one you danced to on your first date or the tune you both saw live in concert, you can have the title, Spotify code and "album cover" (aka a picture of the two of you) printed on this unique keepsake. And for an extra touch of magic, it even glows in the dark.
30. Funny Valentine's Day Card
Photo: Amazon
This first Valentine's Day idea is perfect for couples who met on a dating app. The front of the card reads, "You're the best thing I've ever found on the internet," with a playful nod to your modern love story. Inside, it's blank, leaving plenty of space for you to write your own heartfelt message. A handwritten note adds that personal, romantic touch that makes any gift extra special.
