Here's How to Say "Happy Valentine's Day, Boyfriend" in a Card

With February 14th on the horizon, it's time to show your special guy some love. A handwritten card that reads, "Happy Valentine's Day Boyfriend," is one of the best ways to celebrate him on this romantic holiday. But how do you come up with the perfect Valentine's messages for your boyfriend? With the right tools and advice (AKA our expert tips), you'll be able craft a heartfelt note in no time.

As you sit down to write a message to your BF on Valentine's Day, there are a few things to consider. How does he like to be complimented? If he's a romantic type, a sentimental saying may be the key to his heart. Or if he's a movie buff, a Valentine's Day quote from his favorite film might be a better choice. You can also take inspiration from your relationship and how you met for the first time. Whether you've recently started dating or are in a long-distance relationship, we'll help you find the right words. Check out our list of Valentine wishes for a boyfriend below, along with a sample poem and Valentine's letter (if you really want to show off.)

In this article:

• What to Write in Your Boyfriend's Valentine's Day Card
• Cute Valentine's Day Messages for Your Boyfriend
• First Valentine's Day Messages for Your Boyfriend
• LDR Valentine's Day Messages for Your Boyfriend
• Unique Valentine's Day Quotes for Your Boyfriend
• Valentine's Day Letter for Your Boyfriend Example
• Valentine's Day Poem for Your Boyfriend Example

What to Write in Your Boyfriend's Valentine's Day Card

Deciding what to write in a Valentine's Day card for your boyfriend can be tricky, but luckily we have some pointers to share. Start by telling your guy about all the things you admire about him: like his kindness, loyalty or sense of humor. Then you can dive into your relationship and how you're excited to celebrate Valentine's Day together. Feel free to add in a sweet anecdote (or two) or refer to the cute Valentine's Day gift you're about to surprise him with. Once you're ready to write a personalized Valentine's message for your boyfriend, browse our list of prompts below.

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Cute Valentine's Day Messages for Your Boyfriend

Cute Valentine wishes for a boyfriend are always a win, especially if he's not shy about sharing his feelings. Make him blush with a charming compliment or greet him with an adorable pet name… Either way, lean into the romance of the holiday and remember to have fun! These playful phrases are perfect for your BF's Valentine's Day card (plus they make great Valentine's Day captions for your socials, too.)

• Happy Valentine's Day boyfriend! I'm so happy to call you mine.
• To the guy who gives the best cuddles in the world. I love you and can't wait to celebrate Valentine's Day with you. X
• Every day with you is like Valentine's Day. Thanks for filling my life with love and laughter!
• Happy Valentine's Day sweetie! Let's order some takeout and wine and have a cozy night together.
• February 14th is one day of the year, but I love you just as much on the other 364 days. Happy Valentine's Day.
• Dearest [boyfriend's name]. Will you be my Valentine? Forever yours, x
• Happy V-day, babe! I'm so glad we were struck by Cupid's arrow. Excited to celebrate our love today!
• We go together like chips and dip… now let's grab some for a Valentine's movie marathon!
• Happy Valentine's Day to the guy who laughs at my jokes and picks me up when I'm down. Thank you for always being there for me.
• Before I met you, Valentine's Day was just another day. Now, it's our time to shine. Love you.

First Valentine's Day Messages for Your Boyfriend

Design: Falak Khoja

In the early stages of a relationship, it's all about keeping things light, playful and exciting. But how do you express your budding feelings without overwhelming your partner? If it's your first time marking February 14th together, keep things simple with a heartfelt Valentine's Day note to your boyfriend. These thoughtful tidings are genuine and warm, without being over the top.

• Happy Valentine's Day! You're not just my boyfriend: you're my partner in crime, my travel buddy and my favorite person to spend a Sunday with.
• I'm so happy I reactivated my Bumble account. Happy V-Day boyfriend!
• Dear [boyfriend's name]. Thank you for always putting a smile on my face. I hope I do the same for you. Happy Valentine's Day.
• How fun is it to be celebrating Valentine's Day together?! I was over the moon when we made things official.
• Happy first Valentine's Day! Can't wait to shower you with hugs and kisses (and that silly nickname I know you secretly love.)
• Thanks for swiping right! Happy Valentine's Day cutie.
• So excited to celebrate our first Valentine's Day together! Here's to many more!
• I'm so lucky to be figuring out this whole love thing with you, [boyfriend's name]. Thanks for making me believe in romance.

LDR Valentine's Day Messages for Your Boyfriend

Being in a long-distance relationship on Valentine's Day can be bittersweet, but it's also the perfect opportunity to send your boyfriend a card (or letter) in the mail. Let him know that you're missing him and that, despite the distance, your connection is stronger than ever. Check out these Valentine messages for a long-distance boyfriend for inspiration.

• Missing you like crazy today, but can't wait to see you soon! Happy Valentine's Day, my love.
• Even though we can't be together this Valentine's Day, you're always in my heart. Sending you virtual hugs and kisses to remind you I love you today, tomorrow and every day after that.
• Happy Valentine's Day from [insert state name or city here]. I'm already dreaming up fun stuff for us to do when we see each other again. Love you sweetie!
• Who needs fancy dinners and chocolates when I have the best Valentine's Day date waiting for me on FaceTime? We rock this long-distance love!
• Can't wait to see you again baby! Until then, a card and a surprise package will have to do. Happy V-Day.
• No matter how far apart we are, I always feel so close to you. Our love is special and I'm grateful for you every single day.
• Here's to a Valentine's Day filled with love and the promise of a bright future ahead.
• Happy Valentine's Day to my favorite guy. Counting down the days until I'm in your arms again. I love you.

Unique Valentine's Day Quotes for Your Boyfriend

Design: Falak Khoja

Still need ideas for a Valentine's Day message for your boyfriend? These sayings from Valentine's Day songs, movies, literature and TV shows will help you express your love. They're sweet, thoughtful and fun, just like your special guy.

• "Can I go where you go? / Can we always be this close forever and ever / And ah, take me out, and take me home / You're my, my, my, my lover." —"Lover" by Taylor Swift
• "I would rather spend one lifetime with you, than face all the ages of this world alone." —J.R.R. Tolkien
• "Love is an irresistible desire to be irresistibly desired." —Robert Frost
• "Whenever I'm alone with you, you make me feel like I am home again." —"Lovesong" by The Cure
• "The best thing to hold onto in life is each other." —Audrey Hepburn
• "I hope it's okay if I love you forever." — Ally, A Star Is Born
• "Wouldn't it be nice if we were older? / Then we wouldn't have to wait so long / And wouldn't it be nice to live together? / In the kind of world where we belong." —"Wouldn't It Be Nice" by The Beach Boys
• "Just in case you ever foolishly forget; I'm never not thinking of you." —Virginia Woolf

Valentine's Day Letter for Your Boyfriend Example

If you really want to embrace your inner Cupid, a Valentine's Day letter for your boyfriend is the way to do it. Start your love letter with an affectionate greeting, then express all the things you love about him. Whether it's his infectious laughter or warm heart, shout out his most endearing qualities. Feel free to sprinkle in a few cherished memories to amp up your storytelling even further. Finally, sign off with an uplifting ending that reaffirms your love and appreciation. Use our sample letter below to guide you.

Happy Valentine's Day, my love!

I couldn't let this special day pass without telling you just how much I love you. From the moment we met, I knew I had found someone incredible (even though I was too scared to admit it.) My attempt to play hard to get didn't last long… you certainly managed to win me over with your thoughtfulness, big heart and warm smile.

Your ability to find joy in the simple things inspires me and I know that my life is so much richer with you in it. No matter what comes our way, your approach to challenges always makes me feel that everything will work out. Thank you for all the little things you do, from making me coffee in the morning to wrapping me up in a blanket when I'm cold.

We've made so many wonderful memories so far and I can't wait to start another year of love with you by my side. Let's celebrate Valentine's Day doing what we do best: chilling out together and just being ourselves. Pizza and homemade cocktails sound good, don't you think?

I love you so much and I'll always be there for you. Thank you for being the best boyfriend I could have asked for.

Love always,

[Your Name]

Valentine's Day Poem for Your Boyfriend Example

If a letter feels too long or formal, how about writing a Valentine's Day poem for your boyfriend instead? It's a really cute Valentine's Day idea that'll grab his attention and it can be as silly (or soppy) as you like. We've penned a short limerick to help you get started.

To my one-in-a-million guy,

I'm so excited for you and I,

Every day is such fun,

I know you're the one,

And I never want to say "goodbye."