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Updated Mar 06, 2025Here's How to Wish a "Happy Valentine's Day" to Your Husband
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Whether you've been married for one year or one decade, your husband probably already knows that you love him (although a little reminder can't hurt). A heartfelt note that says, "Happy Valentine's Day, husband" is an excellent place to start, along with a cute Valentine's gift. Penning Valentine wishes for your special guy doesn't have to be complicated or cringey, unless that's your vibe, but it deserves some thought. Need some tips on what to write in a Valentine card for your husband? From touching Valentine's card messages and a love letter to romantic quotes you can add to your V-Day Instagram caption, we'll help you find the right words below.
In this article:
- How to Write a Valentine's Day Card to Your Husband
- Touching Valentine's Day Wishes for Your Husband
- Funny Valentine's Day Messages for Your Husband
- Romantic Valentine's Day Quotes for Your Husband
- Valentine's Day Letter for Your Husband Example
- Valentine's Day Poems for Your Husband Examples
How to Write a Valentine's Day Card to Your Husband
If you're wondering what to say in a Valentine's Day card to your husband, we have a few tips to share. Before putting pen to paper, consider his personality and how he likes to be appreciated. Is he a sentimental guy who remembers every little detail? If so, you can include a few personal anecdotes from different stages of your relationship to give him all the feels. Perhaps humor is more his style, in which case a funny inside joke (or two) will make him smile. Remember, you know your husband best, so don't be afraid to follow your instincts.
Another approach to writing Valentine wishes for your husband is to take inspiration from the life you share. Whether you've just swapped vows or have a decade of marriage (and kids) under your belt, showing gratitude for the simple things will go a long way. If you're pairing your card with a cute Valentine's Day gift for your husband, feel free to keep things brief (or even reference the surprise that's in store for him). On the other hand, if you've decided to forgo presents this year, a sweet poem or a Valentine letter for your husband could be the best gift of all.
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Touching Valentine's Day Wishes for Your Husband
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Bring on the warm fuzzies with these heart-touching Valentine's Day wishes for your husband. They're sweet, thoughtful and sincere, which is just what your favorite guy deserves. Read our Valentine messages and sayings below and feel free to make them your own (we promise we won't tell anyone!)
- Happy Valentine's Day to the guy who makes everything better. There's no one I'd rather have by my side than you.
- To my heart and soul on Valentine's Day: Life with you is simply the sweetest. Here's to another year of love and happiness.
- I'm so lucky to have married my best friend. I hope you know how much I love you, not just today but every day of our lives. Happy Valentine's Day, babe.
- Every day with you feels like Valentine's Day… but today is the real deal! I love you.
- Happy Valentine's Day, husband! So excited to share our first Valentine's Day as an officially married couple. Here's to many more!
- Thank you for bringing so much joy, love and laughter to our marriage. I appreciate all that you do for me and our family.
- On our first date, I felt excited, nervous, safe and secure all at once. Being with you is like coming home. Happy Valentine's Day, my love.
- In a million lifetimes, I would choose you again and again. Happy Valentine's Day to my favorite person in the world. I love you.
- My darling, it doesn't matter whether it's February 14th or another day of the year. My love for you never changes.
- To my forever Valentine: Being loved by you makes me the luckiest person in the world.
Funny Valentine's Day Messages for Your Husband
Of course, sentimental sayings aren't the only option when it comes to writing your hubby's V-Day card. If he's always cracking jokes, add a lighthearted touch with these funny Valentine messages for your husband.
- You're the best thing I've ever found on the internet. Happy Valentine's Day to my person!
- There's no one I'd rather wake up with every morning than you. (Yes, even though you snore like a bear). Love you, x
- Happy Valentine's Day to the luckiest guy in the world! JK, I'm lucky to have you too (I guess).
- Remember our first date? It's amazing that we've come this far! Here's to another year of winding each other up.
- Happy Valentine's Day, honey! Let's get those kids to bed early tonight—so we can fall asleep watching Netflix. (Why, what did you think I meant?)
- It's hard to admit it, but every year you get more charming. How do you do it?! Happy Valentine's Day to my man.
- Happy V-Day, babe! Now you can rip open the gift attached to this card (I know you want to).
- Someday you'll find this card in a drawer when you're looking for socks. Happy Valentine's Day, sweetie.
Romantic Valentine's Day Quotes for Your Husband
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Finding the words to woo your spouse isn't always easy, so it's totally okay to tap the pros. From famous songs and movies to classic literature, there are endless sources of inspiration out there. Check out these thoughtful and romantic Valentine's Day quotes for your husband below.
- "If you find someone you love in your life, then hang on to that love." —Princess Diana
- "When we love, we always strive to become better than we are. When we strive to become better than we are, everything around us becomes better too." —Paulo Coelho, The Alchemist
- "Love has nothing to do with what you are expecting to get—only with what you are expecting to give—which is everything." —Katharine Hepburn
- "I hope you don't mind that I put down in words / How wonderful life is while you're in the world." —"Your Song" by Elton John
- "You should be kissed and often, and by someone who knows how." —Margaret Mitchell, Gone With The Wind
- "Love is friendship that has caught fire. It is quiet understanding, mutual confidence, sharing and forgiving. It is loyalty through good and bad times. It settles for less than perfection and makes allowances for human weaknesses." —Ann Landers
- "No measure of time with you will be long enough. But, we'll start with forever." —Edward Cullen, Twilight
- "Come a little bit closer / Hear what I have to say. / Just like children sleepin' / We could dream this night away."—"Harvest Moon" by Neil Young
- "Love is sharing your popcorn." —Charles Schultz
Valentine's Day Letter for Your Husband Example
Here's a cute Valentine's Day idea: write a romantic love letter to your husband to wish him a "Happy Valentine's Day." He'll be touched that you've gone the extra mile to make him feel special, plus he can keep it as a souvenir to reread in the future. Below, we've created a template Valentine letter for your husband which you can personalize with your own anecdotes, quotes and more.
To my darling husband,
Happy Valentine's Day sweetie! I can't express just how much you mean to me but I'm going to give it a try. Every moment I spend with you is precious, from making dinner in the evenings to falling asleep together after a long day. We've faced many challenges in our lives, but I know that nothing is impossible as long as I have you.
Thinking about our first date brings all those butterflies right back to me—and I'm still so excited to see you (even if it's only been a few hours). My favorite place to be is in your arms and I can't wait to snuggle with you on February 14th. Let's order some food, open a bottle of wine and rewatch a rom-com (you know the one) to kick off another year of love.
Of course, Valentine's Day isn't really about the cards or the presents—although both are welcome! It's about getting to spend time with you and appreciating all that we have. Your smile, your patience and your courage give me strength every day, even when nothing seems to be going right. Thanks for being the best husband anyone could wish for.
Love always,
[Your Name]
Valentine's Day Poems for Your Husband Examples
If you're still struggling to write Valentine's Day greetings for your husband, we've got one more trick up our sleeves. These short-and-sweet Valentine poems are a cute (and creative) way to express your feelings.
Example One
Love is more than presents and laughter,
Or even the famous "happily ever after."
Love is waking up next to you,
Looking for kisses and things to do.
Love is sharing a meal in the eve,
Life is crazy, it's a welcome reprieve.
Love is having the courage to see,
All the magic there is between you and me.
Example Two
To the wonderful man that I wed,
There's nobody I'd want instead,
To lighten the mood,
And share all the food,
And sleep next to me in bed.
Example Three
Happy Valentine's Day to my one and only,
Life with you is never dull or lonely.
Whenever I see that twinkle in your eye,
I'm forever thankful for my special guy.
From the moment we met, you had my heart,
You're funny, kind, loyal and smart.
