Former 'Bachelorette' Katie Thurston Marries Jeff Arcuri Days Before Starting Breast Cancer Treatment

The couple exchanged vows in their New York City backyard.
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Sarah Hanlon
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  • Sarah is the Entertainment & Celebrity Editor for The Knot, with special focuses on pop culture and celebrity wedding news.
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Updated Mar 24, 2025

Former Bachelorette Katie Thurston has given out her final rose. The reality star married comedian Jeff Arcuri in their New York City backyard on March 22, 2025. The couple confirmed the news to Us Weekly in the days leading up to their nuptials when discussing how Thurston's breast cancer diagnosis impacted their relationship. "You would think it would cause more tribulation or problems between you, but it's bonded us more than anything else, which is why we're moving up the wedding a little bit," Arucri explained, adding, "We're getting married in two days."

In fact, the couple's wedding took place exactly one year after Thurston DM'd a video of Arcuri's stand-up comedy routine to a friend, writing, "Future husband." After connecting on Instagram, Thurston and Arcuri officially met in May 2024, and they were engaged by August of that year. Look back on Jeff Arcuri and his wife Katie Thurston's love story here, including the details from their meaningful wedding day.

  • Jeff Arcuri's wife is former Bachelorette Katie Thurston. They got married on March 22, 2025.
  • Jeff Arcuri and Katie Thurston met over Instagram and had their first date in May 2024.
  • After dating for three months, Jeff Arcuri proposed to Katie Thurston in August 2024.

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Jeff Arcuri and Katie Thurston's Wedding Details

Jeff Arcuri married Katie Thurston in their NYC backyard on March 22, 2025. Although their wedding occurred less than a year after they first met, the pair wanted to tie the knot before Thurston began breast cancer treatment following her unexpected diagnosis at age 34. "Obviously, we were wanting to plan a wedding and there's a lot of emotions that come in with chemo and the impact and the health and we don't know what the next year looks like," Thurston told Us Weekly ahead of their big day. "And one night he said, 'I want to show you that I still love you and that I'm here to stay. I'll get married to you tomorrow.' We flew our parents in from Michigan and Washington State. We got our marriage license and a friend is just gonna marry us."

Surrounded by their family (including their dog, Charlie), Arcuri and Thurston tied the knot in the afternoon and celebrated with dinner at NYC hotspot Da Andrea. The newlyweds intend to have a second, larger celebration once Thurston regains her health. "It was this kind gesture of him saying, truly, in sickness and in health," Thurston said of Arcuri's wish to get married as soon as possible. "He is proving that he's here to stay. He shows up every day and he does it in ways that just continue to surprise."

How Katie Thurston and Jeff Arcuri Met

Members of Bachelor Nation may recall that Katie Thurston appeared as The Bachelorette in 2021. Although she ended the show engaged to her final pick, Blake Moynes, they broke off their engagement that fall.

Fast forward to 2024, Thurston discovered comedian Jeff Arcuri on Instagram. "If you've ever looked at his page, you just can't help but truly fall in love with him as a person. His personality—he's so pure and just charming," she told Us Weekly. "So on March 22nd of last year, I sent a clip to my girlfriends. I had never talked to him. We had never met. I sent this clip and said, 'Future husband.'"

Little did she know, that DM would set forth a whirlwind romance that would culminate with their wedding exactly one year later. "At the time, I didn't realize, but I was manifesting my actual future husband, so when we were looking at dates, I was like, 'Wait, it has to be March 22nd,'" she said.

Jeff Arcuri and Wife Katie Thurston's Relationship Timeline

After connecting over Instagram, Jeff Arcuri and Katie Thurston spent months talking over the phone before meeting IRL. Look back on their whirlwind romance here, which led to an engagement three months after their first date.

May 5, 2024: Jeff Arcuri and Katie Thurston Have Their First Date

In the early days of their relationship, Jeff Arcuri and Katie Thurston spent anywhere from three to six hours talking on the phone every day. They finally met in person on May 5, 2024, in Los Angeles—and the rest was history.

June 14, 2024: Jeff Arcuri and Katie Thurston Go IG Official

One month later, Katie Thurston made her relationship IG-official by sharing a photo with her new beau, captioning it with a nod to her Bachelor days. "Safe to say he's making it to hometowns next week ❤️," she wrote.

August 2024: Katie Thurston and Jeff Arcuri Get Engaged

When you know, you know. Arcuri popped the question in August, which the fiancés revealed in a joint post on Instagram the following month. Before the year ended, they hosted a festive engagement party with loved ones.

February 2025: Jeff Arcuri Supports Katie Thurston Amid Breast Cancer Diagnosis

On February 15, Thurston revealed her shocking diagnosis with breast cancer at age 34. In a raw post on Instagram, the comedian opened up about how her Valentine's Day celebrations looked vastly different than she expected. "Jeff took me to Hawaii and after, we were going to travel the world before planting roots together in NYC finally. But instead, my Vday was spent coordinating a place to live as I have to go back to LA for more testing and treatment," she wrote. "I used my morning to figure out insurance for NYC and laws on preexisting conditions. I scheduled appointments for another biopsy, fertility, mental health, surgery, as well as meeting with my team to discuss the overall treatment plan, which will include chemo."

Arcuri has been by her side ever since. In fact, he was the one who suggested they get married before her treatment began so he could support Thurston as her husband. Speaking to Us Weekly about his wife's experience, Arcuri praised her for turning the diagnosis into something meaningful. "The amount of times that she walks into a room reading a message from somebody saying they got checked because of her—she's taking what's happening to her and doing good," he said. "She's like, 'I'm glad it happened to me with my platform so that I can help other people.'"

March 2025: Jeff Arcuri and Katie Thurston Get Married

One year to the day after she DM'd her friend about Arcuri, Thurston officially married the comedian. The couple hosted their wedding at home in NYC and plan to have a second, larger wedding after she finishes treatment.

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