49 Sex Games For Couples Where Everyone Comes Out on Top
At the start of a relationship, daters play a lot of games: the classic "hard to get," the strategic "who texts first" and the charade of trying to be perfect. But once your couple status is secured, games of the heart become something more literal—and way more fun! Sex games for couples add a playful twist to date nights, sparking not only intimacy, but also laughter, love and a deeper connection. Even when you're facing off in a couples board game or exchanging flirtatious glances over your hand of cards, you'll both end up winners.
Intrigued? We've rounded up a variety of couples' sex games, including ones you can play on your phone and DIY options, so there's no need to anxiously wait on a shipment to turn up the heat.
In this article:
- The Best Sex Games For Couples
- Sexy Board Games for Couples
- Sexy Card Games for Couples
- Sex Game Apps for Couples
- DIY Sex Games For Couples
The Best Sex Games For Couples
Relationships (and sex) should be fun, no matter what stage of life you're in. If you're looking to spice things up, there are plenty of sex games to play with your partner that will bring new excitement to the bedroom. These are the top couple sex games that readers like you are loving.
Wonderlust's Mindful Intimacy Card Deck
If you're new to toys in the bedroom (games included), this sex therapist-approved card game for couples is a great place to start. While some prompts are spicy, like "Is there a sexual fantasy you'd like to make come true," others encourage deep, romantic conversations such as "What's your favorite memory of us?" This blend of emotional connection and playful exploration helps build confidence, setting the stage for even more intimacy in the bedroom. There are no rules, just open-ended pillow talks that are sure to lead to more.
Monogamy Adult Board Game
Promoted as the "hottest game ever," Monogamy: A Hot Affair for Couples turns up the heat with every roll of the dice. Players will move their way around the board and for every space they land on, will pick a card and follow its instructions from intimate conversation starters to tantalizing challenges. The game consists of three rounds, each one getting steamier than the last. The winner gets to choose from 50 fantasy scenarios to bring to life. Things may get so hot and heavy along the way that you might leave the game unfinished... but you still will!
Sexy Truth or Dare
What do you get when you combine pick-up sticks with Truth or Dare and two people in love? This sexy game for couples! It includes 50 double-sided sticks, each printed with 100 racy seductions to complete once successfully pulled from the pile. (Psst, there's also a Kinky Truth or Dare version for even more foreplay.)
The Adventure Challenge ...In Bed Edition
The Adventure Challenge is the not-so-secret ingredient to unforgettable date nights, and their …In Bed edition takes intimacy to a whole new level. This activity book helps couples break out of their routine, explore new desires and deepen their connection through playful, romantic and passionate challenges. (Think: blind taste-testing dessert sauces off each other.) There's a bit of a gambling twist, though. While you'll get hints about time, cost and setup of each date, once you scratch off a challenge, there's no backing out!
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Date Night Poker
It's hard to think of sex games for couples without thinking of strip poker—but why settle for a plain deck of cards? The Fantasy Box transforms the classic game into an unforgettable date night experience. Inside, you'll find everything you need to set the scene: candy cigarettes and sunglasses for a high-stakes vibe, a deck of cards and betting cards to play, plus fun extras like a finger massager and lingerie for when the clothes inevitably come off. Pro tip: Read the instructions a couple of days in advance—each player has a role that encourages dressing up and even prepping cocktails for a truly immersive (and sexy) night in.
Sexy Board Games for Couples
Sexy board games are not an oxymoron—they exist, and they can be a lot of fun. Whether you're looking for playful teasing, steamy challenges or something that leads to even more intimate adventures, these tabletop games are designed to bring couples closer together. Think of dice, spinners, pawns and tiles as your new tools for foreplay.
OSG: Our Sex Game
This gender-neutral erotic exploration board game for adults offers a little something for everyone. Players take turns rolling the die, moving around the board and drawing cards that prompt activities centered on romance, passion and intimacy. With three levels, seductive, erotic and finally X-rated, the challenges escalate as the game progresses. The winner gets to choose a sexual fantasy to be fulfilled. We're sure you'll be playing this over and over again.
Role-Play Board Game
If you and your partner have ever wanted to try role-playing, this game will help you embrace new characters and step into a world of passion and fantasy. Fog of Love is a unique, story-driven board game where couples take on the roles of fictional lovers, navigating the ups and downs of a relationship through choices, challenges and secrets. Will your love story be a whirlwind romance, a dramatic roller coaster or take an unexpected twist? Each playthrough brings a fresh and exciting experience for couples willing to embrace a bit of sexy improvisation.
Let's F*** Sex Game
This kinky sex game for couples will have you literally racing for the bed. Up to four players will compete on the board, taking turns spinning to determine their movement. Each space presents a new challenge to complete, from a passionate kiss to talking dirty. The first player to reach the final space—a bed—wins. But with every playful challenge and teasing touch along the way, everyone comes out on top.
The Big Oh! Board Game
This game is all about foreplay—exactly what your partner wants! Lovehoney's Night of Foreplay kit is designed to build anticipation and tease each other's senses with the help of a scented massage candle, a silky blindfold (which can double as a restraint), a tickler, cherry orgasm balm and two decks of cards with flirty dares for you to complete as you race around the board.
Love Battleship
Things are about to get wet—and we're not talking about the sinking ships. Love Battleship takes the classic game and gives it a sexy twist. Players will take turns calling out coordinates and when they land a hit, have to draw either an activity or a foreplay card with romantic or spicy challenges to complete. You don't have to play with all the cards, so you can choose to just dip your toe in the waters or go full steam ahead into X-rated territory.
Sexopoly
The classic game of Monopoly can take hours to finish, but this sexy version will wrap up much quicker. Like the original, players roll the dice to move around the board and build their empire. Instead of hotels and railroads, though, you'll be snapping up adult film studios, strip clubs and lingerie stores. Make sure to watch your cash. If you can't pay, your clothes are on the line! Luckily, you can earn more money by answering naughty questions and taking on frisky challenges.
Why Not? Romantic Board Game
Why try a sex game for couples? Why not?! This exciting two-player game takes you on a playful journey around the board, where you and your partner move in opposite directions, one square at a time. Each square presents a different action—whether it's drawing one of three levels of intimacy cards, having your partner choose a daring challenge for you or rolling the dice for fate to decide your next move. Once you reach the finish line, if you've made it so far without jumping into bed, you'll get to pick the final challenge category together.
Naughty Connect Four
Two players face off in a classic game of Connect Four—but, of course, with a seductive twist. Each chip has a tantalizing action like "nibble ear," "talk dirty," or "back massage," turning every move into instructions on foreplay. When a player completes a line of four, the loser (though we use that term lightly) must perform all the actions on the winning chips as the ultimate reward for their opponent. Don't worry, they'll definitely reciprocate!
Sexy Block Stacking Game
You'll be falling in love just as the tower's tumbling down. Sex Blocks is a seductive twist on Jenga, where each block features a playful prompt like stripping, dancing or kissing your partner. And just to spice things up more, there are 69 blocks in total, each one offering a new way to stack the fun (and the tension).
Roll Play Fantasy Game
Roll Play is here to bring your fantasies to life, one lucky roll of the dice at a time. Each roll selects one of 12 characters to play, props to use and the intensity of the scene, so every game is as unique as your desires. There's also racy challenge cards to spark improv during play. You could be anything from a love doctor or firefighter to an assistant or bartender, but no matter which role you take on, you're guaranteed to feel like a star.
Oral Fun Board Game
This couple's sex game will keep your mouth busy, no conversation required. Oral Fun is a steamy board game all about indulging in oral pleasures. Roll the dice and move around the board, completing spicy actions based on the symbols you land on, like answering adult trivia questions, drinking and giving or receiving oral sex. Ready to play? The contender with the longest tongue goes first!
Glow in the Dark Sex Dice
Shake things up between the sheets with a shake, rattle and roll of these sex dice. (They glow in the dark for your convenience.) Playing is simple: Roll one die for a location (like the kitchen or the bedroom), one for the body party and one for the action to perform on it. Once foreplay is over, there are two additional dice with 20 different sex positions so you can take a chance and try something new.
Sexy Card Games for Couples
Shuffle up and strip down! These sexy card games for couples bring a whole lot of fun and flirtation to your date night, all in just a small, portable deck.
We're Not Really Strangers Adult Edition
Fun fact: Selena Gomez and Benny Blanco shared their first kiss over a game of "We're Not Really Strangers." The popular couples conversation card game, which sparks deeper intimacy on its own, now has a specific X-rated deck. With 300 questions across three levels, this game dives into your thoughts and feelings about relationships, sex and your partner. The vulnerability and honesty required for gameplay will lead to more confident, comfortable and satisfying sex since you'll have had direct conversations to understand each other's needs better.
Bondage Card Game
Some knots are meant to be untangled, but these? You'll want to stay wrapped up in them all night. Lovehoney's Oh! Hot Knots sexy card game for couples invites you to explore the sensual world of bondage, no prior experience required. It comes with a satin blindfold and ties to use as you flip through 52 instructional cards each with different ways to use the restraints. Sit back, relax, trust in your partner and explore the thrilling intimacy of surrender and control.
Intimacy After Dark Deck
Best Self Co. offers a range of conversation card decks designed to encourage honesty and open communication—two essential elements for a thriving relationship. Start with their Intimacy deck to spice up dinner conversation, then, as the evening progresses, reach for the Intimacy After Dark deck. Packed with 150 provocative prompts, it's a fun and playful way to explore your partner's desires. You'll share fantasies, discover turn-ons (and boundaries) and answer some seriously steamy "what if" questions. Trust us—talking openly about sex with a romantic partner often leads to action.
Let's Get Deep After Dark Expansion
Let's Get Deep is another fantastic conversation card game series for couples, featuring a special expansion pack designed to explore intimacy in a fun and playful way. With over 150 thought-provoking questions, it sparks meaningful conversations about both emotional and physical intimacy. Here's a sneak peek at some of the questions: "If you had a 'hall pass' for any celebrity, who would you choose and why?" "What's your opinion on open relationships?" and "Have you ever been romantic with a friend's sibling?"
Talk, Flirt, Dare Card Deck
No matter what mood you're in, the sexy card game Talk, Flirt, Dare has you covered. With three levels of play, it can be a lighthearted icebreaker for new relationships or a creative way to add extra foreplay to your routine with a long-term partner. The talk deck sparks fun and meaningful conversations, flirt turns up the heat with spicy exchanges and dare takes things to the next level with exciting physical challenges. So, whether you're keeping things PG or X-rated, this game guarantees a good time.
Sexy Pictionary
You don't need to be an artist to play this naughty version of Pictionary. The game includes two dry erase markers, two reusable whiteboards and a washable cleaning cloth, so you can doodle your way through 100 prompt cards. Get ready for plenty of laughs as you try to decipher which part of a stick figure is the arms, the legs and well…other body parts.
Adult Dominos
You probably never realized how closely "domino" and "dominate" sound—until now. (And once you notice it, you'll never unhear it.) This sex card game for couples uses that clever wordplay to introduce a thrilling power dynamic into your date night. You and your partner will take turns building a trail of domino tiles, each featuring an enticing icon. The winner (AKA the person who has no dominoes left) gets to choose one of 24 scenario cards that match an icon from their final tile and decides who will play the dominant role and who will submit. Playing control games with the person you love and trust is a fun way to explore new levels of sexual pleasure.
A Year of Sex Card Game
A Year of Sex! has sold over a million copies and it's easy to see why. The naughty deck not only introduces you to 50 "Kama Sutra"-inspired sex positions (complete with instructions and illustrations on how to master each one), but it also can be used to play three exciting adult card games: Lover's Libido, Ultimate Fantasy and Fortune Teller. While the gameplay varies, the goal remains the same—create a straight using positions across all five difficulty levels. The first player to accomplish this gets their winning hand played out in the bedroom.
Couples Drinking Game
For those who are thirsty in more ways than one, Drunk in Love offers an exciting alternative to heading out to a cocktail bar for date night. The rules are simple: First, grab a glass of your favorite alcoholic or non-alcoholic bevvy, then draw a card and follow its instructions. You'll either drink if a statement is true or drink if you don't want to complete a dare. The prompts are a mix of intriguing, hilarious and flirtatious—perfect for spicing up the night. (Drink if you're having sex after this game!)
Quickies and Connections Cards
Connection cards and activity idea cards—what more could you need? The Adventure Challenge's Quickies card deck offers 30 sexy challenges, each designed to be completed in 30 minutes or less, making it the perfect way to create quality time even on your busiest days. It also includes their pocket-sized …In Bed edition connection cards, so you can use them anytime, anywhere. Break free from boring conversation habits and discover more about your partner's sexual fantasies.
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Kinky Four-of-a-Kind
If you think these sleek black cards with gold-gilded illustrations look sexy, wait until you start playing them. 4Play is the ultimate card game for couples, featuring four thrilling ways to play: Snap & Strip, Spank Me!, Flash Me!, and Ménage à Trois. Each game is a matching challenge—some will test your memory, while all of them will challenge your self-control to finish the game instead of heading straight to the bed. Let the temptation begin!
Daring Word Jumble Game
Dare Duel takes the best part of Truth or Dare—the dares—and eliminates the need for truth-telling and coming up with creative challenges. In this game, couples draw cards to select random words and phrases, which are then combined to create a dare—ideally they're romantic requests, but often can just be hilarious. With nearly endless combinations to keep things fresh, it guarantees a game of passion and surprises every time you play.
Sex Game Apps for Couples
Typically, we recommend putting away your small screens on date night to truly focus on each other—but some apps are worth making an exception for. These sex game apps for couples transform your phone into a tool for seduction, guiding you through flirty prompts, daring challenges and steamy scenarios—all without taking up any space in your game cabinet.
Spicer
If you met your partner on a dating app, you're probably already familiar with how swiping works. Spicer applies that concept by offering a couples' app where you and your partner swipe right for "yes" and left for "no" on thousands of sex-related questions, helping you uncover your shared desires. You can also create your own questions for a pressure-free, open discussion within the app or challenge each other to fun dares to earn points.
We2
We2 is like a digital playground for couples, packed with over nine sexy games designed to turn up the heat. For instance, Sex Roulette keeps things spontaneous by randomizing positions, role-play scenarios and steamy actions for you to perform within a set time, while Ladder of Desire challenges you to roll virtual dice and unlock 22 naughty tasks, one step at a time. With adjustable intensity levels, you can ease into the fun or dive straight into discovering thrilling new ways to experience pleasure together.
Couply
Couply is like a relationship coach and a personal diary wrapped into one sleek app. Unlike spicy games that turn up the heat in the bedroom, Couply focuses on strengthening emotional intimacy through personalized quizzes, date ideas and daily conversation prompts tailored to your relationship. It ultimately leads to better physical intimacy. It even helps you discover your love languages, set relationship goals and remember important dates—so you'll never forget an anniversary again.
Paired
If you're looking to enhance your sexual connection, Paired offers a wide range of expert-backed content designed just for you. This safe, digital space for couples provides meaningful conversations and expert advice, helping to nurture a healthy bond and develop the key relationship skills essential for emotional intimacy. Plus, with features to help you create your "Kinky Sex Bucket List" and explore your fantasies, Paired is the perfect mix of sweet and spicy.
NSA: Polyamory & Lewd Elation
You can watch porn with your partner, but you can also listen to it. This app is designed to provide you and your partner with the ultimate kinky audio retreats. Each expertly crafted audio experience immerses you in a sensual journey, featuring stories on BDSM, polyamory, queer self-discovery, tantric sex and more.
Hot Truth or Dare
This app boasts the largest collection of naughty Truth or Dare questions out there, with over 19,000 spicy dares and juicy truths for couples and groups of friends. You'll never run out of exciting prompts to spice up your nights. But don't just take our word for it—it's a top 100 lifestyle app in over 50 countries, with a massive 31 million users!
69 Positions
How many sex positions do you actually rotate through in the bedroom? Are missionary, cowgirl and doggy always your go-to? If you're ready to shake things up, the 69 Positions app can help offer a fresh perspective on your bedroom routine. It shows you over 100 different positions with detailed instructions and visual aids to make trying something new easier than ever.
Scratch Adventure: Sex Games
Think of Scratch Adventure as a mystery box of romance, spontaneity and passion. Each scratch-off challenge (just swipe your finger back and forth on your phone screen) is designed to ignite desire, break routines and push boundaries in the bedroom, no matter your sexual orientation. (There's even challenges for threesomes.) The app also includes mini-games like Dice to Spice, Squeeze, Lick, Suck and Augmented Reality adventures. There's also a special game for long-distance couples looking to keep the spark alive.
Sex Tracker
You put everything in your calendar—why not sex? This app lets you log all your romantic activities from when, where and how long to who was involved, protection used and more. You can even rank each encounter, turning your love life into a personal highlight reel. By the end of the year you'll see your physical relationship stats alongside your Spotify Wrapped.
OhMiBod Remote App
OhMiBod takes pleasure tech to the next level with sleek, app-controlled vibrators that sync to your favorite music, respond to touch or let a partner take control from anywhere in the world. Whether you're exploring solo or spicing things up with a partner (even a long-distance one), their innovative toys bring a new level of intimacy and excitement. Just turn it on, connect and have fun.
DIY Sex Games For Couples
Feeling creative? These DIY sex games for couples put a dirty twist on games you already know and love—so you can skip shipping and get straight to the fun.
Strip Poker
What happens in Vegas stays in Vegas—and the same rule applies when you're playing poker in the bedroom. The game is simple: Whether you play Texas Hold 'em, Five Card Draw or Blackjack, each time you lose a hand, you remove an item of clothing. By the time someone's down to nothing, you'll both be feeling like winners.
Hand Over the Remote
If you and your partner enjoy remote- or app-controlled vibrators, this game takes them to the next level. Think of it like "truth or drink," but instead of taking a shot when you refuse to answer a question, your partner turns up the intensity of the toy. The more secrets you keep, the more things heat up—so choose your words (or your pleasure) wisely!
Sexy Task Box
Grab a shoebox, jar or any small container and fill it with slips of paper listing sexy tasks, dares or fantasies you'd love to try. Each partner takes turns pulling a task at random, and whatever is drawn, must be completed. Want to spice things up? Color-code the slips by category like foreplay, positions and role-play so you can each draw a few for a well-rounded bedroom experience.
Sex Dice
While there are plenty of sex dice available for purchase online, you can easily create your own with numbered squares. Grab two dice—one for body parts (like lips, neck and thighs) and the other for actions (such as kiss, lick and nibble). Roll the dice to turn foreplay into a fun game of chance!
Naked Twister
Twister—butt naked. Strip down and let fate (AKA the spinner) get you tangled up in all sorts of compromising positions. The closer you get, the harder it will be to finish the game—but winning isn't really the goal here, is it?
What's Your Fantasy: Pictionary
Put your artistic skills (or lack thereof) to the test by drawing out your deepest fantasies. Each partner takes turns sketching a sexual act while the other tries to guess what it is. There are a couple ways to up the stakes. The partner with the least amount of points at the end of every round can remove an item of clothing or the partner with the most points can request a sexy favor of their choosing.
Dirty Scrabble
Get ready to get creative with your vocabulary! In this cheeky twist on Scrabble, only dirty, flirty or suggestive words count. Trust us, you'll be laughing all night as you spell out naughty words and defend your innuendos for points. Want to turn up the heat? Add a rule where the words played must be incorporated into the bedroom—whether through actions or dirty talk.
Erotic Art Challenge
A trip to the craft store is in order! Grab some body-safe paints (and a large tarp to protect the space) and explore each other's erotic zones. The goal is to cover every inch of your partner with paint, all while discovering new spots that might just drive them wild.
Sexy Hide and Seek
Take the classic childhood game and add a very adult twist. One partner hides somewhere in the house, and the other must find them—and when they do they get to hook up right there in the hiding spot. To make things even hotter, surprise your partner by trying on some new lingerie before they go searching for you.
Mystery Sensations
In this DIY couples sex game, one partner wears a blindfold while the other uses different textures to explore their body. Start with something soft, like a feather or silk, and gradually move to other sensory items like ice cubes, oils and lotions, candle wax or food like chocolate syrup and whipped cream. The blindfolded partner must guess what each sensation is before moving on to the next.