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Updated Mar 06, 2025100+ Would You Rather Questions for Couples From Funny to Flirty
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Getting to know your partner is one of the most exciting parts of a new relationship. But let's be honest—being peppered with rapid-fire, interview-style questions over dinner isn't the most fun way to bond. So, how about a playful twist? Would you rather questions for couples provide a lighthearted way to dig deeper into each other's personalities, quirks and preferences—while sharing plenty of laughs along the way. After all, it's way more fun to ask, "Early-morning hike or late-night movie marathon" than the usual, "What do you do for fun?" You're bound to learn something new (and maybe even a little surprising) about your partner. Even if you've been together for years, throwing in a few this or that questions for couples will spice up your daily conversations.
To play "Would You Rather," take turns asking each other questions with two options, and then discuss (or, more likely, passionately debate) which choice you would make and why. It's a fun way to learn more about your compatibility and strengthen your connection.
Ready to play? Don't sit in silence as you think of your own would you rather couple questions. We've rounded up the best hard, spicy, deep, flirty, funny, romantic and juicy questions for you.
In this article:
- The Best Would You Rather Questions For Couples
- Relationship Would You Rather Questions for Couples
- Hard Would You Rather Questions for Couples
- Spicy Would You Rather Questions for Couples
- Deep Would You Rather Questions For Couples
- Flirty Would You Rather Questions For Couples
- Funny Would You Rather Questions For Couples
- Romantic Would You Rather Questions For Couples
- Juicy Would You Rather Questions for Couples
- This or That Questions for Couples
The Best Would You Rather Questions For Couples
Ready to dive deeper into getting to know your partner? Check out these top-notch questions, ranging from fun would you rather prompts to relationship-focused this or that questions, designed to spark meaningful conversations and reveal new insights.
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Relationship Would You Rather Questions for Couples
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If you're here looking for ways to deepen your connection, these would you rather questions about relationships will offer a fun sneak peek into what a shared future together might look like.
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- Would you rather stay in for every date night or go out for every date night?
- Would you rather do one hobby together for life or never do the same activity twice?
- Would you rather be with someone who never shares their feelings or someone who overshares everything, even your private moments?
- Would you rather your partner's friends disapprove of you or your friends dislike your partner?
- Would you rather have a partner who shares your taste in food or music?
- Would you rather have a partner who gives great gifts or great compliments?
- Would you rather have a partner who's a great listener or gives great advice?
- Would you rather be with someone who's spontaneous or someone who plans everything?
- Would you rather be with someone who loves PDA or won't even hold your hand in public?
- Would you rather cook every night and have your partner clean or the other way around?
- Would you rather take turns picking up the entire tab or always split the bill 50/50?
- Would you rather your partner be super romantic or super practical?
Hard Would You Rather Questions for Couples
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Some would you rather questions can feel impossible to choose between (like cake or cookies). These would you rather questions are hard-hitting to test your compatibility, spark important conversations and help you gain a clearer understanding of your partner's values and boundaries.
- Would you rather outlive your partner or have your partner outlive you?
- Would you rather have no kids or have at least five kids?
- Would you rather be a stay-at-home parent or a working parent?
- Would you rather live near family or friends?
- Would you rather travel the world but never have a permanent home or live in your dream house but never travel abroad?
- Would you rather move in with someone before marriage or wait until after you're married?
- Would you rather your partner protect your feelings with a lie or always be brutally honest?
- Would you rather be more patient or more confident?
- Would you rather always feel understood or always feel appreciated?
- Once you're married, would you rather have a joint bank account or keep individual bank accounts?
- If we made drastically different salaries, would you rather split expenses based on income or 50/50?
- Would you rather lose all of the money you've earned this year or lose all the memories you've gained this year?
Spicy Would You Rather Questions for Couples
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Get ready to turn up the heat with some spicy would you rather questions that are sure to spark some fun and flirtation. You might just discover what they truly like in the bedroom, giving you the chance to turn those desires into reality for an even hotter and more fulfilling sex life.
- Would you rather give up sex or food?
- Would you rather take on a submissive role or a dominant role in the bedroom?
- Would you rather have more role play or more foreplay?
- Would you rather be caught masturbating or having sex with a partner?
- Would you rather only have sex in the morning or only at night before bed?
- Would you rather have car sex or shower sex?
- Would you rather watch porn with your partner or read erotica out loud to each other?
- Would you rather always hook up in the dark or with the lights on?
- Would you rather be the plus one in a couple's threesome or bring in a third to have a threesome with your significant other?
- Would you rather use whipped cream or chocolate sauce?
- Would you rather give your partner a sensual massage or receive one from them?
- Would you rather never have oral sex again, or only have oral sex forever?
Deep Would You Rather Questions For Couples
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Get comfortable being vulnerable and take the time to dive into the "why" behind each answer with these deep would you rather questions. By exploring your partner's true values and beliefs, you'll strengthen your emotional connection and gain a deeper understanding of each other.
- Would you rather live in a city you love that is far from family or in a place you dislike that's close to family?
- Would you rather know who you'll marry or when you'll die?
- Would you rather have more money but less quality time together or less money and more quality time together?
- Would you rather never age mentally or physically?
- Would you rather have more money or more time?
- Would you rather be personally or professionally fulfilled?
- Would you rather have a one-minute conversation with your past self or your future self?
- Would you rather be a master of every musical instrument or be fluent in every language?
- Would you rather be royalty during medieval times or a middle-class person in the future?
- Would you rather be the center of attention or go unnoticed?
- Would you rather have a partner who supports you in everything or one who challenges you to improve in ways you might not agree with?
- Would you rather be able to turn back time and fix past mistakes, or have the ability to see into the future and know what's coming?
Flirty Would You Rather Questions For Couples
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Get ready to turn up the flirtation with a playful game of would you rather for couples. These questions are perfect for flirty texts that will have you both blushing and extra excited for the next time you see each other in person.
- Would you rather receive a flirty selfie or an intimate message?
- Would you rather I kiss your lips or your neck?
- Would you rather have a relaxing bath together or a long, hot shower?
- Would you rather share a picnic on the beach at sunset or by a crackling fireplace in a cozy mountain cabin?
- Would you rather be kissed passionately or kissed gently and tenderly?
- Would you rather have a cozy night in with me or a night out dancing together?
- Would you rather me slip into lingerie just for you or wear a sexy outfit on the town with you by my side?
- Would you rather me whisper sweet things in your ear all night or leave cute notes for you to find throughout the day?
- If we were playing Truth or Dare, would you pick truth or dare right now?
- Would you rather be the little or big spoon?
- Would you rather I use a corny pick-up line to make you laugh or a romantic one that leaves you blushing?
- Would you rather get a flirty text from me every morning or a flirty phone call every night?
Funny Would You Rather Questions For Couples
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Laughter is a great way to bond, and these quirky questions are sure to have you both cracking up. Whether you're being silly or just enjoying each other's company, these funny questions will keep the mood light and fun!
- Would you rather have to wear matching couple outfits every day or never wear color again?
- Would you rather have me steal the last of your fries or the last bite of your dessert?
- Would you rather wear pajamas to your wedding or formalwear on a first date to a coffee shop?
- Would you rather always laugh at your own jokes or never be able to laugh again?
- Would you rather always have to sing in the shower or dance in the kitchen while making dinner?
- Would you rather only be able to use emojis or only be able to send gifs?
- Would you rather never wear underwear again or never wear socks again?
- Would you rather only eat incredibly spicy or incredibly sweet foods for the rest of your life?
- Would you rather have a partner who can't cook at all or one who overcooks everything?
- Would you rather live without Wi-Fi for a month or without your partner for a month?
- Would you rather fart every time you kiss or sneeze every time you orgasm?
- Would you rather date someone who talks in their sleep or someone who snores like a chainsaw?
Romantic Would You Rather Questions For Couples
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Whether you're dreaming of cozy moments or grand gestures, these romantic would you rather questions will spark intimate conversations and help you learn how your partner prefers to be shown affection.
- Would you rather have a surprise date planned for you or plan a surprise date for me?
- Would you rather randomly receive fresh flowers or your favorite candy and snacks?
- Would you rather tell someone you love them first or have them tell you?
- Would you rather celebrate anniversaries with a big, elaborate date or a thoughtful, meaningful gift?
- Would you rather meet me for the first time again or see where we are a year from now?
- Would you rather a public proposal or a private proposal?
- Would you rather have your dream wedding or your dream honeymoon?
- Would you rather go on a couples retreat on an island or in the mountains?
- Would you rather me serenade you or dance with you to your favorite song?
- Would you rather be surprised with breakfast in bed or a romantic dinner?
- Would you rather have a couples photoshoot or a custom painting of us?
- Would you rather kiss me in the rain or under the stars?
Juicy Would You Rather Questions for Couples
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With a mix of awkward situations and tough choices, these juicy would you rather questions will bring about candid conversations.
- Would you rather go on "The Bachelor" franchise or "Love Island"?
- Would you rather end a relationship with someone you still love because you know they're planning to break up with you, or be the one who's dumped by someone you still love?
- Would you rather be the one cheated on or be the one to cheat on your partner?
- Would you rather accidentally send a flirty text to your parents or your boss?
- Would you rather have your partner read all your old text messages or go through your social media history?
- Would you rather be caught in a compromising position by your friends or by your parents?
- Would you rather go on a blind date set up by your coworker or by your mom?
- Would you rather be in an open relationship but always worry about jealousy or stay exclusive but worry about trust issues?
- Would you rather have a sex dream about your boss or your best friend?
- Would you rather accidentally call your partner by your ex's name during sex or have them do the same?
- Would you rather accidentally like an old picture of your ex on social media or one of my ex's photos?
- Would you rather have the ability to read your partner's mind or have them be able to read yours?
This or That Questions for Couples
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End with a lightning round of "This or That." These quick and fun prompts are perfect for learning the little things about your partner.
- Coffee or tea?
- Sweet or savory?
- Morning person or night owl?
- Summer or winter?
- Dogs or cats?
- Texting or calling?
- Poems or love letters?
- Introvert or extrovert?
- Scary movies or rom-coms?
- Binge-watch or weekly episodes?
- Stay in or go out?
- Movies and TV shows or books?
- Couch cuddles or bed cuddles?
- Shopping online or in-store?
- Singing or dancing?
