Long Island Wedding Destination
Holds ceremonies and receptions
AWARD WINNER (5X)
Thanks to recommendations from couples on The Knot
Set on 28 lush acres on Long Island’s North Fork, East Wind Long Island is an award-winning venue offering three distinct settings, each providing exceptional service and exquisite cuisine. Offering both indoor and outdoor event spaces that can accommodate weddings of 100 to 1,200 guests, couples can choose from several stunning venues on our property for their special day.
For a personalized, "one wedding at a time" experience The Estate curates an intimate and exclusive wedding with spaces that radiate both rustic warmth and traditional grandeur: a beautiful outdoor ceremony location, a sumptuous reception room, and a light-filled, glass-walled cocktail area for up to 300 guests.
Imagine your wedding day at The Vineyard, a romantic haven for up to 140 guests. Picture exchange vows under a grapevine arbor with stunning vineyard vistas. Enjoy an outdoor cocktail reception, farm-to-table dining, and exceptional service, with no site fee.
Host an unforgettable event in The Veranda, designed to accommodate up to 175 guests and boasting a sophisticated setting with a floral-adorned coffered ceiling, a marble dance floor, and a modern bar. Custom lighting and a Tuscan tile balcony overlooking manicured grounds enhance the experience.
The expansive Grand Ballroom accommodates up to 1,200 guests and is ideal for grand celebrations and multi-day events, particularly South Asian weddings. Our curated network of vendors ensures exceptional floral arrangements and entertainment.
East Wind is more than just a wedding venue—it's a destination. Located on the beautiful Wading River, our full-service luxury hotel offers easy access to both Long Island’s wine country and the iconic beaches of the Hamptons. On-site amenities include a 10,000-square-foot salon and spa, perfect for bridal preparations, as well as Desmond’s Restaurant, ideal for your rehearsal dinner or post-wedding breakfast buffet.
The North Fork Bridal Shoppes is conveniently located near our West Entrance and offers a wide array of bridal attire. Guests can also explore The Shoppes, which features boutique retailers, high-end jewelers, a florist, and artisan gift shops. Ruggero’s, our family-style Italian restaurant, is a wonderful option for rehearsal dinners, with its charming carousel providing a romantic photo opportunity.
East Wind Long Island is dedicated to exceeding your expectations. We proudly cater to all cultural, and LGBT weddings, offering inclusive packages tailored to your vision. Contact our creative wedding planners today to start planning your perfect celebration!
East Wind Long Island is a Wading River, NY hotel wedding venue.
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Amenities
Ceremony Area
Dressing Room
Handicap Accessible
Indoor Event Space
Liability Insurance
On-Site Accommodations
Outdoor Event Space
Reception Area
Wireless Internet
Ceremony Types
Civil Union
Commitment Ceremony
Elopement
Interfaith Ceremony
Non-Religious Ceremony
Religious Ceremony
Second Wedding
Vow Renewal Ceremony
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Ballroom
Barn
Estate
Garden
Hotel
Restaurant
Trees
Vineyard & Winery
Venue Service Offerings
Bar & Drinks
Cakes & Desserts
Destination Weddings
Destination Wedding Packages
Destination Wedding Planning
Food & Catering
Planning
Destination Wedding Planning
Se Habla Español
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East Wind offers beautiful, well-kept grounds and flexible, modern event spaces with an on-site hotel. Staff are professional, attentive, and consistently go above and beyond to keep the day stress-free. Guests rave about the abundant, delicious food. Overall experience is seamless and highly recommended.Review photos
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Kierstyn R
5.0
5/09/2026
We got married at East Wind on April 24 and everything was SPECTACULAR. Jennifer helped us every step of the way and answered any questions we had. For our wedding, Scott was our m...
aitre d and he walked us through the whole wedding day process and helped set up our decor and everything came out BEAUTIFUL. He truly went above and beyond, we were so worried we would be stressed on the wedding day with everything and running around but truly Scott had it go absolutely perfectly and it was exactly what we had envisoned for our wedding day, and we didn’t even help set up lol! He made sure everything was on track and even when we were being bombarded by guests talking to us, he saved us (lol) so we can go eat. For our rehearsal, Reed was absolutely amazing and such a big help walking us through our rehearsal for the ceremony the day before, as we were all nervous about what to do, but we felt so much better after going through the steps with him and he was great! Alexa was the bridal attendant, and she was SO sweet and was a great “hype man” lol and went above and beyond with making sure my husband and I were fed, had enough drinks, and she even helped hold my wedding dress and fluffed it out so it looked good for photos and helped fix my necklace and hair for photos too. We even had our food and desserts wrapped up at the end of the night to bring home and they were still fresh tasting and delicious! She even made sure they took the top of of the wedding cake so we can freeze it and eat it on our one year anniversary, something we wanted to do but we were so busy that day that we forgot to mention it… i’m so glad she did that for us! Everyone was raving about the food (and amount of food too!) and the overall atmosphere, if we could tell anyone getting married to use East Wind as their venue, we would. the entire process was so easy and smooth and we are so thankful for everyone who helped us along the way. it was truly a dream day.🤍
Rosemarie L
5.0
4/30/2026
My husband & I are I beyond grateful for Nicole, Sadie & Lexi! They all did an AMAZING and I mean an AMAZING job...each one of them went above and beyond to accommodate us & our gu...
ests...Days later my guests cannot stop talking about how beautiful Our Wedding was...from the moment we met Sadie she made me feel like a princess, she did and set up everything "perfectly"...the decor was gorgeous...and tables were BEAUTIFULLY set...Joe & I couldn't thank her enough...then I meet my awesome Bridal Attendant Lexi, who couldn't do enough for me...she stood by my side from the moment I arrived to the moment I left...and went above and beyond to make my day perfect...My heart is beyond grateful to have been blessed on my Wedding Day with the most incredible human beings who genuinely care and have this innate l♡ve just shining through...forever grateful forever touched...thank you Ladies of Eastwind you all are remarkable! With l♡ve & light always, Rosemarie-Livreri-D'Astolfo
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Brittany B
5.0
2/11/2026
I am so happy we chose East Wind as our wedding venue!
Our day could not have gone any smoother than it did and everyone who contributed to our day - including sales coordinator, ...
Nicole, maître D, Tony, bridal attendants Alyssa and Marylou - were phenomenal. The staff was attentive to me and my husband, our parents and bridal party the whole entire day! Tony was instrumental in bringing my vision to life, even when I wasn’t entirely sure of my vision. I made some last minute, game time decisions and he was so willing to roll with the punches. Marylou was in sight all night, replenishing our waters so we could stay hydrated will dancing! The service here is exceptional and the staff is beyond friendly. The grounds are gorgeous. The food is incredible and you get SO MUCH of it. My guests are still raving about how delicious and how much they got! If you care about food at your wedding, this is the place to be!
I would not change anything about this day and a big thank you to East Wind for making all our wedding dreams come true!
Alesia R
5.0
1/20/2026
Everything about working with East Wind was seamless. Our sales manager Jennifer was phenomenal and we couldn’t have had a better Maitre’d, Tony. Our attendants were also fantastic...
for early arrival and through the night. We got married at the Estate and everything was amazing. Our guests said it was the best wedding they had ever been to and the East Wind team definitely helped to make that happen. We are so grateful to everyone who helped to make our day special and stress free. Definitely recommend to anyone looking for somewhere beautiful to tie the knot - you absolutely will not be disappointed. The food, the service, and gorgeous room, it doesn’t get any better!!!
Kellie P
5.0
10/11/2025
Absolutely Amazing Experience at East Wind Vineyard!
We had our daughter’s wedding at the Vineyard at East Wind, and we couldn’t have asked for a more perfect day! We were so luck...
y — the weather was absolutely gorgeous, exactly what we had prayed for.
From start to finish, everything exceeded our expectations. The food was incredible — everyone raved about it! The cocktail hour offered an overabundance of delicious options, and the entrées during the reception were outstanding. What really impressed us was that East Wind even goes around offering seconds to guests — what other venue does that?
But what truly made the day unforgettable was Sadie, our Maitre D’. She was an absolute gem — personable, energetic, and so enthusiastic. Sadie went above and beyond for the bride and groom, and for us as the parents of the bride. I was able to text and talk with her in the days leading up to the wedding, throughout the entire event, and even afterward! She was everywhere, making sure every detail was perfect and that we were all happy. You could tell she truly cared and gave 100% of herself to make our day flawless.
Thank you, Sadie, and thank you, East Wind, for giving our family a day we’ll treasure forever!
Courtney O
5.0
9/19/2025
My husband and I got married at East Wind Sept 14th 2025. And we are so glad we chose here! Every corner of this venue is absolutely stunning. We chose the Veranda Room and had our...
ceremony outdoors, where it was beautifully manicured and decorated with the most beautiful white flowers. The views of the chandelier during cocktail hour were unbelievable and the outdoor balcony was such a vibe. The place is beautiful but the people who work here are even more beautiful! Scott, Tony, and Lexi were so professional, joyful, and peaceful! Tony and Lexi made our wedding day sooooo memorable and easy!!! The front desk staff also, incredible and they gave us whatever we needed always in the most timely manner. Can I just say having the hotel and the venue was so convenient for everyone. I was able to stay the night before and the night of and it made the day free from rush. And we enjoyed a breakfast the next day at Desmond’s in the hotel with all the guest that stayed over. It was so fun to have a place to recap the whole day with my loved ones. Truly priceless. I can’t say enough good things! 😊
Alyssa M
5.0
9/14/2025
My husband and I got married on August 9, 2025 and we couldn't be more thankful to have worked with East Wind to celebrate our special day with. Our entire experience, we booked 2....
5 years out, was absolutely amazing and there is nothing negative to say about the staff. Nicole was our sales rep and she was truly incredible. She is extremely knowledgable and truly cares about her clients. She answered all of my questions as soon as possible, always with a smile on her face. She truly was the best and we are so thankful that we had the pleasure of working with her.
When Reid reached out to me to introduce himself as our maitre d, I knew I was in good hands. Not once did he make me feel like I was a bother, he answered any and all of my questions and he was on top of everything. Our wedding day was truly perfect, if there were any issues at all my husband and I had no clue about it because Reid and his team took care of everything. Not only did they set up our room beyond our vision, but the staff all worked hard with a friendly smile the entire night. Our guests raved about how great the service was from the servers and bartenders and we truly felt the same. While they were setting up our room I took a peak and they all stopped to say hello to me, compliment me and cheer me on before our ceremony.
I can't recommend East Wind enough, you are truly in excellent hands because of how incredible their team is. They genuinely care about their clients and go above and beyond to create a perfect day for you. We are so appreciative of all they've done for us.
Jason S
5.0
7/24/2025
If you’re getting married you MUST book here!! I got married June 1st 2025 and everything was amazing! The food, the staff, and the Veranda room went above our expectations! Jenni...
fer the event manager was the BEST and always available to answer any questions I had along the way. My maitre D Sadie was amazing, helpful and made the wedding perfect and just knew the vision I was going for. She set everything up perfectly and helped the day run smoothly. My bridal attendant Lexi was the sweetest ever and so helpful. I stayed at the East Wind the night before the wedding and the day of the wedding and the room was great! Very clean and comfortable. The food at the reception and cocktail hour was AMAZING. My guests have been raving about it still 2 months later!
East wind is just truly the best place and I’m so happy we got married there!! Best decision ever!
Oliver O
5.0
7/21/2025
We had the wedding of our dreams in the Veranda at East Wind! We were delighted by every part of our special day. Joe, our sales representative, was friendly, welcoming and straigh...
tforward in answering all of our questions during the sales process. He was so excited for us as we were preparing, and made time on the "day of" to congratulate us and wish us the best. Jimmie (our maitre d') worked with us up to the day before to resolve last minute changes and made sure that every detail was just as we wanted it. On our wedding day, Jimmie and Fabiola, our bridal attendant, went above and beyond. Jimmie kept things running smoothly and made sure not a flower was out of place, and was super flexible and understanding whenever we needed a hand. Fabiola was incredibly helpful in not just attending to the bride but also helping the bridesmaids throughout the day; she felt like an extra bridesmaid herself! She even helped the bride's family feel welcome because she was able to talk to them in their language. She made the flower girls feel at ease, and she made sure the bride and groom always had food and drinks throughout the night without being at all overbearing. The rest of the staff did an exceptional job. The front desk staff was also so helpful with our welcome bags, hotel rooms, and bridal suite arrangements.
Danielle M
5.0
7/16/2025
Exceeded our expectations for a fabulous wedding. Staff went above and beyond in every aspect. The food was insanely delicious and seemingly never ending to everyone’s pleasant sur...
prise. The setup was executed perfectly specific to our vision. We hosted our wedding in the Veranda ballroom which was just recently renovated to feel so fresh and bright and modern. Perfect size for 135 +/- guests. Loved the layout of the room. Grounds were beautiful and pristine. Our Maître D - Read was phenomenal, very polite and professional. The Bridal Attendant was great, good vibes and super willing to tend to my every need. Our guests are still talking about how beautiful everything was. Even my most discerning family, friends and colleagues were highly impressed. The East Wind staff worked well with my vendors which were picked from their preferred vendors package. Ask for the enhancements menu before finalizing the food and beverage options. Anything is possible for your perfect wedding at East Wind.
Katie M
5.0
6/04/2025
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I got married at East Wind this past Sunday, and it was truly the most magical day of our lives. From the moment we booked to the final send-off, everything was absolute...
ly flawless.
Joe in sales was so helpful throughout the booking process—he answered all of our questions, made us feel at ease, and got everything set up perfectly from the start. On the day of, Reed, our maitre d’, was phenomenal. He kept everything running smoothly with such professionalism and calm. Barbara, our wedding attendant, was a true gem—so attentive, thoughtful, and kind. She made sure we were taken care of every step of the way.
We also want to give a special thank you to the amazing woman at the front desk. Her warmth and friendliness made such a difference every time we walked by.
The venue is absolutely stunning, and our guests are still raving about the food, service, and overall experience. East Wind brought our vision to life and gave us a day we’ll never forget.
If you’re considering getting married here—do it. You won’t regret it.
Brianna R
5.0
6/03/2025
East Wind was a great venue to use. We had our wedding at The Vineyards. The room was very clean and there were no issues the day of our wedding. The vineyard area itself was well ...
maintained with an outside bar on nice days. We were able to have our cocktail hour outside. This allowed our guests to stay in the same area where we had our ceremony. East Wind brought all the food to this outside area as well as passed around food.
Guests have been raving about the food we had stating that it was one of the best. If you are skeptical about the food, East Wind offers plenty of opportunities to try their menu items at their Wedding Showcases. These events are offered throughout the year. Every time we went to one we were never disappointed.
East Wind made the experience less stressful. Jennifer, our sales representative, was truly amazing! She was always an email away and helped with any issues we may have experienced. Reid, our maitre d, was a superstar knowing all the ideal ways to layout our floor plan and how to proceed throughout our big day.
Would highly recommend East Wind to anyone looking for a beautiful rustic wedding venue.
Brianne M
5.0
5/06/2025
We had our wedding at The Estate at East Wind on April 26, and it was truly the best day ever! From the start, we knew The Estate was the perfect venue for us—it beautifully blends...
rustic charm with elegant ballroom style, which fit both of our personalities perfectly. Of all the venues we toured, The Estate offered the most variety and flexibility while still being cost-effective.
Our package included two signature cocktails (which were phenomenal!) and, of course, a full open bar. For the cocktail hour, we had five different stations plus a gorgeous grazing board filled with cheeses, charcuterie, fruits, and vegetables, along with passed hors d’oeuvres. Dinner included a salad and a choice of five entrées for our guests. For dessert, we had a stunning four-tier cake from The Rolling Pin (10/10!) in two different flavors, plus a fun ice cream bar.
Our maitre’d, Tony, was absolutely fantastic. He went above and beyond to make sure everything was set up perfectly and that our entire night ran smoothly. At the end of the evening, he packed up everything we needed right away, and the next morning we found the rest of our items neatly organized and ready to go.
Our bridal attendant, Mary Lou, was phenomenal. From the moment I arrived, she was attentive, thoughtful, and made sure I was always comfortable—champagne in hand and food in reach! She brought all of the cocktail hour food to our bridal suite so my husband and I could enjoy a quiet moment before joining our guests. Throughout the evening, she helped with everything from adjusting my bustle and changing my shoes to making sure I was never sitting alone. She even invited my mom to sit with me if my husband stepped away. She ensured we were well-fed, hydrated, and truly cared for. She also packed up our meals and the top tier of our cake so we could bring them home.
We truly couldn’t have asked for a better day, and The Estate at East Wind made it unforgettable.
Shannon L
5.0
1/21/2025
Everything was perfect! Marylou our bridal attendant and Tony our matire d really made sure our day was perfect
Gem G
5.0
12/22/2024
After trips to other different venues, I knew East Wind was for us. The venue was rustic and beautiful.
Jen McLaughlin, our sales rep, was awesome and consistent throughout the w...
hole process. Very sweet, pleasant, communicative, prompt and was reliable regarding concerns I have.
Come til the wedding, it was perfect. Reid, the maitre d, took over and made everything seamless. Very mellow guy. Patient, sweet, chill and very attentive to our needs. Our wedding party loved him!
And Barbara, our bridal attendant, what a doll! Very nurturing almost. She was very lowkey but whatever I asked help for, it was magically done right away. Honestly, all the staff had been awesome to us, including the bartenders, the waiters. It was perfect, none that gave us a headache at all.
And the food. Our guests couldn't stop raving about it. It was delicious and never ending. I wanted to attend to any wedding at East Wind just to have a great dinner and experience everything again. Thankful for this bunch! ❤️❤️
Most definitely will recommend!
Michelle C
1.0
12/07/2024
Had us come for a tour for a date that wasn’t available and didn’t even check for the date availability when called to confirm appt. Also pushed us to wait to come see it when I wa...
nted to come earlier in the well. Disappointed.
Paola A
5.0
11/20/2024
I was married in the Vineyard at East Wind and the day was just absolutely magical! The entire staff was AMAZING and so on point. They made the entire day stress free and it went ...
better than I could have imagined. Not only are they like a well oiled machine but everyone from my salesperson to my maitre d to the waitstaff were the epitome of professionalism and kindness. I cannot say enough amazing things about them ♥️
Shannon G
5.0
11/19/2024
Fab was my bridal attendant and she was way more than just a bridal attendant - you were my calm in every storm, my confidante, and my friend. Your kindness, patience, and attentio...
n to detail made me feel like royalty on my special day, From lace adjustments to emotional support, you were there for me every step of the way. I'm forever grateful! You went above and beyond, anticipating my every need and exceeding my expectations. Your dedication and passion for your work shine through in every aspect. I highly recommend Fab for any bride seeking top-notch support and expertise.
Anthony L
4.0
11/17/2024
Working with Nicole at East Wind was a dream, and having inclusive vendors in the package really helped, although we did have a tough time communicating with some of the chosen ven...
dors. Our maitre d Tony was so helpful and great to work with, as was our bridal attendant on the day. I think the only real complaint is that we were assured all our decor etc would be packed up after the wedding for us to collect the morning after, but as soon as the wedding ended our things were packed up and we were asked immediately to get everything out of the bridal suite and venue into our hotel room that night, which was a stressful and sad way to end the evening carrying boxes and packing things in our wedding outfits! It really put a dampener on things, so that’s something to be aware of.
Stephanie G
5.0
10/18/2024
We got married at The Estate and there are not enough wonderful things I can say about the staff at East Wind.
Jennifer was our salesperson and she was a dream to work with! She ...
was so responsive to all of our questions and is just one of the nicest, most bubbly people! She checked in with us a few times throughout the actual day of our wedding and we even saw her the next morning. She took the time to congratulate us, make sure our night went well, and give us big hugs. We loved her!
Our maitre d was Tony and I can see why he consistently gets fantastic reviews in this group/other bride groups! Him and his staff were on top of everything. Between making dropping off all of our decor so easy, setting it all up BEAUTIFULLY, ensuring us and our guests had everything we needed, and just being a warm presence, he helped make our day run so smoothly. If you’re getting married at The Estate, you are in great hands!
Marylou was our bridal attendant and in addition to making sure my husband and I had everything we needed/wanted, she is an ABSOLUTE sweetheart. She was so attentive! The second I’d finish my drink, I’d turn around and she’d have a new one waiting for me. She made sure we got to try/take home all of our food, and that we had everything before we left. I cannot get over how wonderful she was.
Our guests raved about the food and the service all night. We are so so so happy that we chose East Wind!
Family C
5.0
10/15/2024
The Estate at East Wind is an Amazing venue with beautiful grounds for photographers. The wedding was absolutely the best. From the set-up, to the food, to the services from the ...
staff. Also, a big shout out to the Banquet Manager Nicole McGregor. She was great from start to finish. And she even showed up at the event to check in on everything. Everyone just completely catered to all of our needs.
David C
5.0
10/02/2024
We had the great privilege of working with Joe for our wedding on 09/13/24. From the very beginning, he treated us like family and was always available to assist with anything we n...
eeded. He responded quickly to all of our questions, making the entire process stress-free. Our wedding day was perfect.
Our Maitre D, Reid, was AMAZING—he was incredibly attentive to my husband, me, and all our guests throughout the entire day. The vineyard was stunning, the food was delicious, and the service was phenomenal. We couldn’t have imagined a more perfect wedding day! Thank you so much, EastWind!
Dawn D
5.0
9/24/2024
We got married on 9/21/2024 at the Eastwind . We cannot thank them enough for everything from the ceremony down to the reception. Our maitre d Tara and her assistant Fabiola were i...
ncredible. Every time I turned around they were with a helping hand ! Every detail was amazing just how we envisioned it to be !
Thank you Thank you and Thank you again 😘😘
Amanda L
5.0
9/13/2024
My husband and I got married in the outside garden, and my reception was in the veranda room. It was absolutely perfect. I would not change a single thing. My event planner Jennife...
r was amazing. She was available to me for every question I had within the hour. My maître de Tony and my bridal attendant Tara and Alyssa were all absolutely incredible. Stressful as a wedding can be the three of them were just so calming. They absolutely made me feel stress free. There was never a time my glass was empty and there was never a time I felt lost and not knowing what to do. They were right there by my side, making it as easy as possible with even some laughs to help us loosen up and I absolutely adore them for that! My mom, my 3 girls and myself stayed in the hotel the night before my wedding and it was absolutely wonderful The hotel is beautiful. The ceremony space is beautiful. The reception room is beautiful and I have got nothing but compliments on how beautiful the whole night was. AND extra points for letting our dog come to the ceremony!!
Lindsey S
5.0
9/13/2024
Our wedding at The Vineyard at East Wind was one of the most incredible experiences of our lives!!! Jennifer, the events manager was amazing to work with and answered all of our qu...
estions with ease any time questions came up. She was always available and just an overall pleasure to work with. We really could not be happier with how our day went. Reid was our maitred and he was phenomenal. He made us very comfortable and took care of everything from start to finish for a seamless day. He made sure to help with our handicap grandparents and was so helpful to us the entire day. My bridal attendant was wonderful, the bartenders were amazing and there was hardly ever a line at the bar. My husband and I always had a full drink and water and for cocktail hour we had a table reserved with all of the food options delivered right to us. I can’t say enough good things about East Wind! We used Life Art photographers and they were phenomenal. From the second we met Anthony for our engagement shoot we knew we were in great hands. Him and his partner Holden captured everything we wanted for our special day. If I could give everyone 20 stars at East Wind, I would!! Thank you!!!!
Tammy S
2.0
9/05/2024
Don't use this vendor if you are Gluten Free, have Celiacs or other Dietary needs.
My daughter and son-in-law just got married at east wind August 24, 2024. From the beginning my...
daughter communicated to the sales rep that her future husband and his father have Celiac and will need to have Gluten Free options for both cocktail hour and dinner. It was written on the contract. The day of the wedding came. The groom and father of the groom were starving by the time cocktail hour came. They put the groom and my daughter in this tiny room for cocktail hour and proceeded to bring the groom a plate from cocktail hour - not gluten free. He returned it and said no he has Celiac and needs gluten free. They brought him a plate full of Mashed Potatoes from cocktail hour which were specifically added to accommodate the gluten free need. When they brought him that plate it had French Fries on it. Contaminating the Mashed Potatoes. Next - they had the chef make him gluten free pasta but by then, cocktail hour was over, the groom had maybe 2 bites. They brought him his dinner but by then he was skeptical if it was truly gluten free. Next - my daughter made sure there was a gluten free cake that was supposed to be on the table next to the traditional wedding cake. This was the cake to be cut and fed to each other when they cut it. It went missing. She knew it was delivered because she talked to the vendor. Long and behold cake cutting was late as the maitre 'd went to go find it. This venue doesn't know how to communicate the dietary needs of the most important people the wedding is about. When everyone (myself, husband, daughter) talked to the venue they admitted fault and the first offer they wanted to give them was 4 tickets to brunch! Brunch! THE GROOM IS GLUTEN FREE. Are you kidding? They told my daughter they would refund 200.00 and that was it. Note to self: Just because something is on the contract with this venue expect that something will fall through. They and the groom and his dad are just lucky no one got sick from THEIR mistake.
Andrew C
5.0
8/10/2024
Life art Photographers are amazing and they took really incredible pictures of our wedding. They are very professional and very patient and they captured each moment of our special...
day.
Renee D
5.0
7/27/2024
I had an amazing wedding at East Wind! My husband and I are thrilled at how it turned out. East Wind delivered on everything they advertised. The food was delicious, well presented...
, and plentiful. There are so many food choices included, along with an opportunity to personalize the cocktail hour. They also included two signature drinks! One feature we really liked is that guests were offered seconds and could select to try another entree if they wished. The building and room is beautiful. Scott and Nicole were great at answering questions promptly throughout the months leading up to the wedding and were always enthusiastic about helping me. They made the final details before the wedding simple and smooth. Our maitre d Joe met with us a few days before the wedding to go over details and get a sense of how we wanted the day to go. He was amazing on the wedding day along with my bridal attendant. They took care of everything so that my husband and I could relax and enjoy. My family and friends had a great time and several have said it is the best wedding they have ever been to! We are so happy we chose East Wind! We stayed at the hotel that night which was so convenient and had our post wedding brunch there with family the next day. Some of our guests stayed at the hotel which was also convenient. We selected a Deluxe Viennese dessert enhancement. I would highly recommend. Our guests can’t stop talking about it!
Danielle L
5.0
6/23/2024
Everyone at the East Wind- from our sales manager Nicole to our maître d' Joe- was an absolute pleasure to work with. Our bridal attendant was Barbara and she was great as well. Ev...
ery single question I had, no matter how small, Nicole was there to answer ASAP. The space was beautiful. They have installed uplighting that projects on the chandeliers and it made for some amazing pics. We wanted an outdoor ceremony but opted for indoors due to drizzle and the indoor space needs zero additional decor, nor does the lobby really, as everything was beautiful and I didn’t fret with the last minute change. The grounds are well kept too! Also, these guys are your "yes men" as in whatever you want they will make it work. At 11:50PM I decided I wanted to keep the party going when it was supposed to end at 12. Joe immediately took care of what needed to be done and we made the payment and stayed till 1AM. Don’t get me started on the food too. The cocktail hour is EXTENSIVE and all my guests raved about it. Barbara also made sure we had enough of it to eat immediately after the ceremony. The main dishes (which I did get to taste) were SO delicious, the steak and chicken were perfectly cooked and so juicy. All of our guests were offered seconds too. The cherry on top of my experience actually occurred after my wedding. I noticed weeks later (went on the HM the day after) that a personalized sign we had was missing (decor was packed up by them). I contacted Nicole and she was able to locate it with Joe and they shipped it to me for free!! What AMAZING customer service!
Annie F
5.0
5/28/2024
Our wedding was seriously the best day of our lives and everyone at East Wind was professional, reliable and a huge help. Jennifer was our point person throughout the planning proc...
ess and was a pleasure to work with. Her quick communication and friendliness made the process stress free.
The day of our wedding, we were in the best hands with Joe, our Maitre D, and Barbara, our bridal attendant. Everything truly was flawless, I can’t think of one thing that went wrong. Both Joe and Barbara were phenomenal and helped everything run smoothly. I had no nerves or anxiety because they were on point. I can’t say enough good things about both of them.
The spa was so convenient and amazing for our bridal party hair and makeup. Additionally, the Inn was accommodating and everyone enjoyed their stay.
I would recommend East Wind to anyone looking for a PERFECT wedding venue.
Kimberly L
5.0
5/07/2024
We were originally scheduled to have our wedding at Miller Place Inn. 80 Days before our wedding we received the notice that MPI closed. To say we were in crisis mode is an underst...
atement. That being said, East Wind was nothing but a miracle. We worked with Jennifer and Rob and the entire staff at East Wind was so accommodating, helpful and overall a happy, energetic bunch. They always made you feel like family when you were there. The property is breathtaking! We we had our first look at the front round about, ceremony in the outdoor chapel, and cocktail/reception in the Veranda Room. Tony (Maitre 'D), Tara (Bridal Attend), and Joey (Captain) went above and beyond the entire day to make everything perfect.
Erin W
5.0
3/01/2024
My husband and I just had our wedding two weeks ago in the updated Veranda Room at East Wind and from start to finish, our day was perfect! We worked with Nicole McGregor (Events M...
anger) who was an absolute dream! I think I sent her multiple emails a week and she was always there to answer any question and help every step of the way! Our Maitre’d Joe was amazing, he kept the whole night running smoothly. Our Bridal Attendant Barbara was so fantastic! We keep hearing from friends and family about how amazing the food was and what a great time they had! We are so grateful for all their hard work!!
Lanie K
5.0
2/20/2024
Our wedding, which was in October of 23', from start to finish was incredible! Jennifer was an amazing coordinator who answered any and all of my questions! She was incredible to w...
ork with and very knowledgable in guiding us throughout the whole process. Our ceremony was supposed to be outside, however weather did not permit this to happen so we had our ceremony in the space downstairs which was all done up and just as gorgeous as the outside ceremony space! We were in the Veranda room which was absolutely stunning! Our guests are still raving about the space and delicious food! There are not enough good things I can say about this incredible spot! The all inclusive package made everything so worth it and gave us plenty of options! We are so thankful to all the staff at East Wind for our incredible time there! We want to relive it over and over again!
Charles P
5.0
1/05/2024
Our wedding at The East Wind was an absolute DREAM come true. When reading reviews, the ones that really stood out were the ones about Jennifer. We booked an appointment and she gr...
eeted us with her amazing smile and extremely outgoing personality. She felt like family (and quickly became part of it). She listened to what we wanted, learned about us & never ever pushed us one way or another. She came back with options that she felt worked for us. We quickly decided this was the place for us.
We didn’t want a long engagement & we signed our contract to have our wedding in the Northampton Ballroom on 11.11.22 for our wedding on 11.11.23. We felt the price was affordable and we were getting SO much for our money.
Jennifer is a GREAT communicator, too great if you ask me. I would have to yell at her for answering my emails on her days off. When we were reaching our final appointment I was starting to get frazzled. I was emailing Jenn on different email chains with different questions. Even though she says I didn’t drive her crazy, I know I did. I will forever be grateful for her help in bringing our vision of a perfect day to life.
There are always hiccups, however, Jennifer took any troubles we were having, assured us they would be taken care of by her personally, and they were. We never felt that we were on our own.
We met our Maitre D’ Scott at our final appointment. He listened to our vision for the day, worked with us to ensure it would all be executed FLAWLESSLY & he came through. All the planning and little details were getting us too frazzled. We communicated best we could & just let go. We let Scott work his magic, & he made it one thousand times better than we could ever imagined. We both cried seeing the room for the first time.
Desmond’s - To make things even easier for us (annoying right?) they has an on site restaurant that we decided to have our rehearsal dinner in the night before. We worked with Rob. He helped us pick the menu that worked best for us. We weren’t rushed, & they let us enjoy ourselves. We invited our families for brunch the morning after the wedding & we had a great time. We stayed from basically open to close of the buffet, & just reminisced about the night before. Which EVERYONE loved.
We both decided to stay in the inn the night before the wedding. We wanted to keep tradition and not see or even speak to each other the day of the wedding. Lauren made sure we were on separate floors, & in areas we wouldn’t run in to each other. All of our guests who stayed in the inn raved about their rooms & loved the accommodations. They only let you book 10 rooms within a block, which wasn’t ideal for us. We understood we picked a popular day, & there were other weddings going on in other rooms, which had NO impact on us, by the way.
Fab, or bridal attendant is amazing. She ALWAYS made sure we had a drink in our hand, & made sure we were staying hydrated too. My wife had 35 bustles on her dress. As our guests enjoyed cocktail hour, she worked on this dress while my wife and I enjoyed the food they brought to our bridal suite. Fab still made sure we were able to get to the cocktail hour and see our guests.
The family we have made here will always have a special place in our hearts. We will always be grateful for how they made us feel & the love they showered us with.
Jennifer, let’s get planning on the baby showers, christenings, & vow renewals ASAP!
Julie R
5.0
1/03/2024
We wed at the Vineyard at East Wind in October and we had the picture perfect wedding day. The grounds are immaculately groomed and the landscaping is breathtaking. From the mome...
nt you enter the vineyard, you'll know you made the right choice. The food is excellent as the staff so attentive, professional and caring. My guests still haven't stopped talking about our wedding and quite a few of them have stated that is where they would like their wedding to be. A hug shoutout to Jennifer M., Joe C., Joey Bowtie and Barbara - they are the ones who brought us through step one till the end without a hitch! I really hope to be a guest at a wedding there soon!
Angelica M
5.0
1/02/2024
East Wind was incredible! The staff was amazing and attentive and made everything magical. The Maitre' D "Joe" brought my vision to life! The food was amazing and the bakery they u...
sed for our cake OMG!! Everyone was so sweet and amazing, I can not recommend East Wind more!! Nicole McGregor was our event manager and she is so full of life and so sweet and helpful!! THE BEST!!
Melissa N
5.0
1/01/2024
We took the package (photo/video, dj, florist) for the Veranda room. We spent the whole weekend (Fri-Sun) out here with our families. It was so nice to have everyone together in th...
e hotel all weekend, it was like the party never ended! Went in the pool, had some drinks/food with live music at the bar, got ready the morning of in our rooms, enjoyed walking the shops, delicious Sunday brunch. Our photos in the room and all around the hotel/property were stunning with all the Christmas decor. Rooms were nice and clean, they worked with us whenever we needed to add rooms to our block or make any changes. Just the fact that everything was all in one the whole weekend made it worth it.
Tara our maitre’d, Marylou our bridal attendant, Sadie our bridal attendant in training shadowing Marylou. All were amazing, helped our reception run so smoothly, were so helpful to my husband and me. Especially Marylou and Sadie their attitude was basically that everything is great, my husband and I could do no wrong, and no request was unreasonable.
Kelcie M
5.0
12/29/2023
East Wind exceeded all expectations! With the capacity to accommodate our large guest list, they created an incredible experience for us. The food was not only amazing but tailored...
to perfection, satisfying every palate. The exceptional staff (Shout out to Jennifer, Tony, and Tara) played a pivotal role in making our day the best it could be. From start to finish, this venue proved to be the ideal choice for a memorable and seamless wedding. Highly recommend for a truly special celebration!
Jennifer C
5.0
11/18/2023
East Wind did a great job with our wedding on 10/28/23. Everything went seamless and we worried about nothing. They even came up with a last minute solution when we realized that w...
e had forgotten to bring a card box. We had a great time, and so did all of our guests. The food and service was wonderful
Jessica K
1.0
11/07/2023
I cannot fathom the idea of another bride going through what I did. If you have any self respect, don't choose East Wind!
They sell an all-inclusive package that doesn't include:
...
Digital version of photos ($250)
Centerpieces past 10 ($35 per)
Flowers
Ceremony ($1600)
Ceremony and cocktail hour music + MC ($900)
Golf cart use
Getting ready at venue ($250 per 1/2 hour)
Tips ($1,175 + vendors)
The venue tour is full of lies:
They say you can use the golf cart to take carousel pics, but they wouldn't let us use it)
They say the provided flowers can be removed but they won't let you take them down.
Digital versions of photos are NOT included in package
Moving on...They closed their bakery 1 month before the wedding and offered to switch my order to another bakery. No tasting and EW would not provide an order confirmation. I had to call the bakery myself in order to make sure the order was correct...AND THEY STILL MESSED IT UP. The cake was made the wrong flavor. This is exactly why I was uncomfortable going with a bakery I hadn't used before, I bought my engagement party cake from EW's bakery so I would know what I was getting and EW ruined that. AND the sales team tried to lie and say the bakery chose to close, but someone at the bakery told me EW shut them down.
We were told 10-12 people per table for the reception at our original meeting, then 8-10, then 8-12. Ended up being 9-12!
When we paid in full our receipt was accompanied by an envelope stating we were EXPECTED to tip them $1,175 (not in our contract). One week later they leave a voicemail stating that they messed up the final bill and will just run my credit card for the remaining amount since I didn't answer the phone. When I called back they had already charged my card for over $800 and were only willing to cancel the charge if I brought them the amount in cash within the next few days.
I show up to the rehearsal to discover the venue is still decorated from the last wedding. I inquire and discover that they changed their permanent outdoor display to a hideous array of CLEARLY FAKE flowers (see photo). I start crying because my vision of my wedding is ruined (I handmade all of my florals) and the Maitre'd says something to the affect of "are you done, I'm trying to run a rehearsal."
Scott promises maintenance will remove the flowers by 7am the next day (day of wedding), we arrive around 9am and my father-in-law has to take them down himself and replace them with our decorations just hours before the ceremony because EW won't (also tried to tell him he wasn't allowed to take them down). Back to the rehearsal...after the fiasco outside, we go in to set up the reception space. The Maitre'd abandons us, leaving me, an already distraught bride to discover they are short on tables. My mother actually had to go downstairs and tell him to go up and help us.
Then during the wedding the MC forgets to announce one of the groomsmen and they can't make the signature drink (which was ordered 3 months prior) because they don't have Blue Curacao (they didn't even tell me, I found out from a guest).
Finally, the morning after the wedding we were rudely awoken around 8am by an EW management pounding on the door to kick us out of the hotel. A shitty end to shitty service!
John & Barbara R
5.0
11/06/2023
The whole process from beginning to end was amazing! Jennifer was our coordinator and Scott was the maitre'd and they were both just so helpful and kind. My now husband (ahhh!!) a...
nd I could not recommend them more. Our guests are still raving about everything from the space and how beautiful it was, to the food! The food is something we're getting so many compliments on, both the quality and the quantity!
Samantha B
4.0
11/03/2023
the Estate @ Eastwind, Long Island: exceeded my expectations- beautiful venue, heard the food was AWESOME - when it’s your wedding, you THINK you’ll eat, but I’m telling you… you d...
on’t. I’m the biggest foodie- I love to eat but.. the overwhelmed feeling kills your appetite. ASK FOR A LITTLE BIT OF EVERYTHING FROM COCKTAIL HOUR TO TAKE HOME (a regret of mine) & one of each entree. You’ll want to eat it in the morning! Jennifer was my sales manager, and she was a pleasure- very easy going, and quickly replied to all of my crazy 3 am emails when I couldn’t sleep and was stressed about silly things. Tony was my maitre d & Mary Lou was my bridal attendant. I didn’t see Tony for much of the night, but it all ran so smoothly, and I set up my lobby because I have OCD, and controlling issues- but I can’t think of any complaints. Mary Lou was AMAZING and on top of everything the entire time. I never DIDN’T have a nice, cold drink in hand. However, we brought a LOT of liquor because we wanted specific types that didn’t come on the package we got. And not ONE liquor bottle was given back to us. I know for a fact the guests didn’t go through all of the liquor we brought, but I was told they would’ve packed it for me if there was any left….
Meagan C
5.0
10/04/2023
I am giving East Winds 5 stars because our day was absolutely INCREDIBLE! The staff, service, and food was amazing and our guests were raving about it from start to finish. We got ...
married 9/15/23 in the Northampton courtyard and had our cocktail hour/reception in the ballrooms afterwards. The courtyard and the entire ceremony ran so smoothly. The cocktail hour was HUGE and we didn't pay any extra. The amount of food you get within your package is absolutely more than enough. At the reception they even came around with SECONDS of dinner for our guests to choose from. Our Maitre D Joe Caserta was awesome and did everything I asked him too, plus so much more. Our salesperson was Melissa and we also got to work with Joey Bowties. The three of them are such an asset to East Wind and made our day amazing. We cannot thank then enough!
I would tell anyone to book East Wind. They have plenty of different space options, there is something for everyone and you truly cannot beat their package of vendors and what they offer, especially being on Long Island!
Victoria G
5.0
8/31/2023
We had our wedding at the Vineyard and it was truly magical. Our sales managers (TK and Scott) were phenomenal and our maitre D (Reid) and bridal assistant (Andrea) were such a ple...
asure to work with. All staff is extremely professional and made all of my dreams come true. I wanted to do things a little non traditional and they worked with me every step of the way to make it happen! The food at cocktail hour and reception was just outstanding. All of our guests raved about it and no one went home hungry. We had our after party and welcome drinks at Desmond’s which was so easy and accommodating!! I was so thrilled with the way everything turned out!! If you want a rustic wedding vibe with a hotel, ceremony, cocktail hour, and reception all in the same place book east wind! The one thing I will mention is that each wedding is only allowed 10 rooms for a room block which was not enough for our immediate family and bridal party so we had to block out some other local hotels but this is understandable as they have other weddings on site!
April D
5.0
5/14/2023
We had our wedding at East Wind in March and it was fantastic! Our guests couldn’t get over the amount of food and quality! They offered seconds at dinner! Jennifer, our sales mana...
ger, was such a pleasure to work with and she made wedding planning so easy. Tara and Reid made sure the night went smoothly, if you’re thinking about having your wedding at East Wind, know you’re in good hands.
Rebecca C
5.0
1/14/2023
2 weeks married! Wanted to share what an amazing job that East Wind did for our wedding. It truly was the most perfect day and I would not change a thing. From the moment we booked...
until we checked out of the hotel the morning after our wedding, East Wind was nothing short of perfect. They communicated quickly and answered our questions promptly leading up to the weeks before our day. They executed our vision perfectly and all of our guests had an incredible time. The food from start to finish is incredible, one of the best parts about East Wind is they come around with second helpings of the entrees. My guests cannot stop talking about how incredible that was. I have severe allergies and the entire staff made sure that all food was allergen free- I had zero worries the day of the wedding. The staff was extremely professional day of the wedding! I truly would not change a thing. Having the hotel and our after party in the same location was such a selling point to us- they truly are THE spot to have our wedding! If you are already booked with them, you are in incredible hands. My sales contact was Jennifer- she is incredible at her job. Day of Tony was our matire'd, he simply runs the smoothest show and keeps the bride calm. I would trust him with my life. Mary Lou was our bridal attendant and she is one of the kindest humans I have ever met, she truly loves love and it radiates throughout the whole day. I would choose East Wind over and over.
Response from East Wind Long Island on 01/24/2023
Hi Rebecca - Thank you so much for choosing East Wind and sharing your experience. Wishin...
g you many years of wedding bliss. Congratulations!
Jennifer C
5.0
11/10/2022
Had the BEST day ever!! Everything went so smoothly, it was decorated beautifully as well! We had the best of the best staff wise-Scott was our Maitre-d and I cannot say enough goo...
d things about him. Fabiola was an amazing bridal attendant, very attentive. We loved every minute of our day and are so glad we chose to have it at Eastwind.
gregg p
5.0
11/03/2022
Absolutely a fantastic job.
The wedding planner (Jen), the Maitre D (Joe), the bridal attendant (Tara) were unbelievable and helped make our daughter's day. Although I forgot some ...
names, the bartender, servers, photography and DJ's were all top shelf. The food and deserts were amazing and plentiful.
Danielle M
4.0
11/02/2022
East Wind Brides are in great hands!
During our 2 years of planning, I was honestly really nervous. Our sales manager changed 4 times. Every time they changed, we weren't notifie...
d. We had to find out through Facebook after our emails went unanswered for a while. That was extremely frustrating, but I have to say the problems with East Wind begin and end at the sales office. Put your trust in them, meet your deadlines, follow instructions, and they will execute your day perfectly! From the second we checked into the hotel the Friday before our wedding, we didn't hear the word "no" once. Tony and Mary Lou were absolute pleasures to work with, and not only did Tony bring my vision to life, he put me at so much ease with his calm and friendly demeanor. Mary Lou is the sweetest, most attentive woman on the planet. She is like a "day of mom" to the whole wedding party -- my own mom included. Everytime my drink was a quarter full, I had a new one in my hand. She made sure me, my husband, and our immediate families were completely taken care of. I can't thank the staff at EW enough for how amazing our day turned out. They're phenomenal at what they do.
I am giving 4 stars due to the communication with Sales during the planning phase, that REALLY needs to be addressed. The weekend of was absolutely perfect.
Allison B
5.0
10/24/2022
We just got married at the estate at east wind! Its a beautiful venue and we had such a memorable wedding day!! Tony was our maitre D and he was absolutely amazing. We are so than...
kful to have had him by our side! He was so nice, helpful and answered any questions we had. He took care of us to make sure we stayed stress free! And The night flowed so nicely. Thanks again Tony!
Our bridal attendant mayra was super sweet and helpful as well. She made sure we had food and drinks and also bustled my complicated bustle!! Such Great staff!
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